KINO KOKORO

What the hell happened to the seduction society?

2009-11-28T23:37:00.000-08:00

First of all thanks for the new comments. I haven't posted anything in a while but I'm glad to see that some people are still reading my blog. Special thanks to Dave Courtney and I'm sorry you are disappointed about my thoughts about women but you would understand if you were a guy.

One thing I started to see is that some PUA websites are not being updated with new posts anymore. This is very sad and disappointing, I guess some of this PUAs were out there just for the money. The PUA community helped me a lot to recover from my depression and the feeling that I was inadequate for this World, the feeling that I didn't belong. Some of the posts in this blog will help you develop the skills to pick up women and therefore raise your self confidence.

Well, until next time.

Kino Kokoro

How to Make Semen Taste Better

2009-03-08T22:30:00.000-07:00

The majority of women prefer not to swallow semen, but your girlfriend may be persuaded if you make an effort to make your spunk taste better. A vegetarian diet is the best way to make your taste milder. If you’re not ready to go meatless, try eating foods like kiwi, watermelon, pineapple, and celery to lighten the taste. Make your semen taste sweeter by incorporating plums, blueberries and cranberries into your diet. Beer and coffee will make you taste bitter and dairy products can produce putrid tastes.

Original Post by Askmen.com

A great opener technique by underground attraction.

2009-01-09T23:49:00.000-08:00

Eye Contact Flirting With a Woman

What I like about openers is sometimes you don’t even have to say anything to get a woman to notice you.Now there will be times when a woman will make DIRECT eye contact with you and will demonstrate what are commonly known as indicators of interest. This is where they clearly show that they’re probably interested in you. If you have the courage, you can use this information to approach and engage them into a conversation. The truth is girls are getting more forward with their intentions. In fact, there will be often times when a girl is clearly checking out. So what do you do during these moments?Well it’s simple, you use what I like to call:“Body Language Opener”

How to Give Eye Contact So Women Approach YOU...
The idea is simple. Whenever you make eye contact with a woman and you know that she’s fully focused on you, you do something with your face and/or body language that’ll break the ice.The idea is give HER some indication that you’ve noticed her, yet you still have a playful attitude when it comes to talking to her. Usually a body language opener will get a girl to laugh, then you simply walk up and start talking to her.Now here are some ways you can use your body language to make a woman laugh:• Stick your tongue out• Give her a “pouty” face• Do a really exaggerated “pick up artist” wink• Give a demure and “embarrassed” look• Show a big smile• Do a fake “angry” look, then crack into a smile• Give a quick head tilt…[Like the “what’s up expression]• Send a quick wave• Do a mock “in love” expression. Ie: Grab your chest and flutter your eyes• Do a fake a suspicious look. Like you know she’s looking at you and keep looking back like your dubious about her glancing at youJust remember that a lot of these body language openers come from a place of being naturally funny with your expressions. So I recommend you practice the looks you give.If you practice enough, you can literally make a girl crack up laughing. Then simply approach her and start a conversation.By using this type of opener, you can start a conversation in more natural manner without resorting to catalog of “canned material”

Awesome field report by EVOLVE

2008-11-21T21:23:00.000-08:00

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There's No Place like Home
by Evolve
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It was 1 A.M. The snow was piled up on either side of
the entrance to Donavan's. I looked over at Tommy. We
were cold, tired, and wet. It had been snowing for
three days. We had spent the night meeting girls in
bars all over New Haven. Each of us had a pocket full
of phone numbers written on little torn pieces of
paper.

"I've lived next to this place my whole life and I've
never been here before." I said to Tommy.

"Really? It's the place where all the kids we went to
high school with go."

"Yea, that's probably why. Scared I guess. Didn't
want to feel the same way I did in high school. Oh
well." We pushed the large wooden doors open and
walked in.

Tom was right; this place was full of locals, mostly
people who I hadn't seen since high school. The last
time they saw me I was wearing knee high boots
equipped with upside down crosses, Lee Press-on nails
(which I had sharpened into claws), and red contact
lenses. I was 6' tall, 130lbs, my head was shaved, my
skin was sickly pale, and I was severely asthmatic. I
was socially awkward and afraid of most women. I
stunk of nerd from too many hours of video games and
D&D. It had been six years since they'd last seen me.

I was different now. I was wearing a red button up
with a red and black striped tie. I had Stitch jeans.
My hair was longer, my eyes were brown, my nails were
manicured, and I weighed about 170lbs. I was tan,
athletic, and had cured myself of asthma with
meditation and a strict workout routine.

Thanks to The Art of Seduction, The Game, and the
internet, I had a whole new view of the social world.
I was no longer the awkward creature of the night
that I once was. My new D&D character was named
Evolve and his battlefield was every bar and club in
town.

Without hesitating I opened a set. "Hey guys, listen,
I can't stay long, I've been arguing with Tom the
whole ride down here about something and I need
your opinion."

One of the girls, the brunette, recognizes me,
"George? No way! How's it been? You look great..."

Her skin was naturally dark. She had full lips, large
breasts, and big pretty eyes, with a little beauty
mark on her face. She sat taller than everyone else,
even though she was probably the shortest in the
bunch. Her voice was loud and her facial features
were expressive. I could tell by her body language
that she was the outgoing one. I had a crush on her
in high school, but I never had the guts to say
anything to her. Now, with my new skills, style, and
confidence, I knew she would be attracted to me.

I cut her off, "I know. It's been awesome. Long
story...anyway...here's the question. If a girl is
throwing a bachelorette party for a friend is it
better to get a male stripper or female stripper?"

Immediately, the girls began to respond and
eventually the guys joined in.

I added to the conversation by saying, "Tom says male
because that's what's traditionally done. I say
female because most women are more comfortable around
female strippers."

As I spoke, I pulled out the open chair in between
the women and sat down.

Tommy walked up and asked, "Hey were you guys just
talking about the..."

I turned to face him and continued his sentence,
"...the strippers at a bachelorette party. By the
way, I'm sure you guys remember Tom, he's made of
magic."

He turned and began talking to the girl closest to
him. I could tell he was running the cube by the way
the girl was staring at him. Eyes glazed over and
focused on every word he was saying.

"What's he doing?"

"It's really cool. It's a psychology game we learned.
Basically, you can discover a huge amount of
information about someone by having them tell you
about a cube in a room. Maybe I'll show it to you
later. It's extremely awesome." She was sitting to my
right. I faced slightly away from her, leaning back in
my chair.

Excitedly she said, "I want to play."

"Nope. First, tell me about yourself. How have you
been since high school? Also, promise me that if the
story doesn't begin with, 'I'm moving out of this
town', you'll just lie and say it anyways." I turned
my head and looked away from her.

She laughed and told me a long story about her future
plans. After about five minutes I started getting
bored. "Let's go play that game." I suggest we go
upstairs first letting her know "It's quieter there.
It will be easier for you to concentrate." She
nodded. I grabbed her hand and took her up to the
second level. No one was there and it was dark - the
perfect place for isolation.

She sat down and I pulled a chair up next to her and
began to run the cube. As she answered my questions
about cubes, ladders, storms, and horses, I'd make
little comments to tease her. When I finished she was
giving me the doggy dinner bowl eyes.

She asked, "Where did you learn this?"

I started the story off by telling her about my life,
the changes I've made, and the lessons I've learned.
I spoke slowly and softly. Her hand was now on my
leg. I talked about how I was working in a lab at
Yale, about some of my crazy college experiences, and

what my goals are for life. The stories displayed

value, expressed my passion for life, and conveyed that

I had a set of goals. She was hanging on every word.

Next, I asked her when her birthday was. I found out
she was an Aries and I told her about how I had been
studying astrology for three years. I made plans to
do a chart reading for her during the week. We traded
phone numbers and continued talking.

"So is there anything you haven't studied?" she
inquired.

I smiled, "No, but there are one or two things that
I'm not perfect at."

"Oh really? Like what?" she said sarcastically.

"Sarcasm huh? Well I guess you'll never know now,
jerk." I turned my back on her.

She grabbed my shoulder and turned me around. "Ok!
Ok! Tell me."

I lightly pushed her, the way an older brother would
push a bratty younger sister, "I'll tell you but you
just lost five points, you're not doing so well, keep
that in mind next time you decide to give me sass."

She pushed me back, "I lose five points?! You lose
five points!"

"Listen I make the rules! And now you're down another
two points."

We squinted our eyes at each other for a moment.

"Salsa dancing.”

"What?" she tilted her head.

"Salsa dancing. I need help with my salsa dancing.
Two of my friends at college were teaching me how to
dance and I have no one to practice with now that I'm
home. So we're going to practice right now. Right
here." I placed my hand on hers.

She squeezed my hand in compliance and said, "No way.
I don't know how to dance."

"Listen. You're going to dance if you want those five
points back. Now stand up." I squeezed her hand and
stood her up.

"Ugghh. Fine." She stood up and stomped her feet like
a little kid who doesn't want to do what she's told.
I knew that secretly she loved every minute of it.

I showed her the basic footwork, and then showed her
how to do a spin. Eventually we decided to try a
harder move that consisted of three spins and some
difficult footwork.

I could feel the sexual tensions between us.

I spun her and dipped her. When she came back up her
face was right next to mine. I could tell that she
wanted me to kiss her so I hesitated then let her go.
This made her feel awkward, like she was somewhat
unwanted.

Immediately she wanted to go downstairs. The bar was
closing and we had been upstairs alone for over an
hour. We decided to go down the stairs toward the
back of the building. It was a dark alleyway. On our
way down the narrow staircase I stopped and looked at
her. "So you guys are still the dorks you were in
high school. Wow."

She laughed, "You jerk." Then she tried to punch me
in the chest. I grabbed her arm and pushed her up
against the wall. I pinned her hand above her head
and kissed her passionately, just like I'd seen in
every James Bond movie.

"Ok, let's get you back to your friends, dork." I
turned my back on her and walked down the stairs.

She lightly punched me in the shoulder as she called
me a "jerk" under her breath.

She loved it. I could tell. Her body language and the
change in her voice told me she had a school girl
crush and was still trying to act tough. It was cute.

Tom was still sitting at the table. Everyone was
having a great time. I handed her back to her
friends.

I waved to the friends as Tom stood up, "I'll see you
all later," I pointed at my girl and said, "Let's do
that chart this week, Sunday."

She smiled, "Definitely."

We left.

A few minutes later my phone rang. "I want my five
points back."

"Maybe you'll get them on Sunday. I'll talk to you
then. Right now I have to find some food. Call me
tomorrow if you like, alright?"

"No, I want my points back now."

"Um, no. Talk to you later. Bye." I hung up.

.............

On Sunday, she came over to my house to get her
astrological chart reading. We sat down at my
computer where I spent the next two hours reading her
chart, telling her about her insecurities, choices of
sexual partners, relationships and most
importantly...why she did what she did.

I walked her around my house showing her all the
interesting and exotic items I had acquired during my
travels. I told her a story about each of them.

Eventually we sat on my futon which at the time was
also my bed and the only place to sit in my studio
apartment.

I threw "True Romance" in the DVD player and got
comfortable. She did the same and over time slowly
cuddled up next to me. I could smell her perfume. Her
lips were right next to mine. I waited a few extra
minutes to let the tension build and then I kissed
her.

A moment later I stopped and pulled away, "You have
to see this part of the movie."

As the movie went on I let the tension build. She
rubbed her face up against mine as we cuddled trying
to get me to kiss her. The moment the credits rolled
she began to kiss me.

I unfastened her bra and began kissing down her
chest. After a few minutes I began to slide my hand
down her panties.

She pulled my hand away, "I don't go past here the
first time I fool around. I'm not planning on having
sex with you."

I grabbed her and started making out with her again.
I kept my hands on her head or shoulders steering
clear of anything sexual.

This time I stopped and said, "This is so cool. I
really enjoy sitting around making out. There's
something innocent about it. I guess because I never
really got to go through that whole making out phase
during my teenage years."

She laughs "What do you mean?"

"When I was in high school I was a big goth kid,
really antisocial. You remember right?"

"Of course," She said giving me her full attention.

"Well my first sexual experience was really fast, I
went from making out for the first time to having sex
in one night. I never had the experience of just
playing spin the bottle or having a girlfriend where
we just make out or get to second base. So this is
really cool for me. I actually really enjoy it. It
really makes me feel like I'm getting what I missed
out on. You're giving me exactly what I want."

She laughed, "Oh really?"

"I mean it's not like sex is that much different from
fooling around for a lot of people, but for me it is. So
let's just make out for a while. And if sex does happen
then it'll be unexpected, it'll feel like you were doing
something bad...like in high school."

She giggled, stared into my eyes for a moment, and
started kissing me. Soon we were getting undressed
and in no time we were having sex.

Later that night we were lying around in bed, "Wow, I
honestly never thought I'd ever be lying next to you
in bed," she said as she pulled herself closer to me.

I looked over at her and gave her a kiss on the
cheek, "Yea, it's weird how things change."

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8 Surefire Methods You Can Use To Your Advantage
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Evolve's successful reconnection with his high shcool
crush was built using a ton of Stylelife's field-proven
methods. Were you able to spot the opener, the
winging tricks, the qualification, and
disqualification techniques, the comfort building
strategies, the time bridge, and the last minute
tension nullifiers?

You can use all this stuff to your advantage too,
just like Evolve did. Think back to that certain
special girl in high school who you always had your
eyes on and imagine you see her again and sweep her
off her feet. How incredible would that feel?

How to Make Your Girlfriend Stronger

2008-11-05T11:12:00.000-08:00

The strongest people of this world strive to bring out the best inothers and help them become the best people they can be. They wantto bring everyone around them up and make them into better andstronger individuals.
When you can make your woman stronger and help her grow into abetter person, when you can share your strength with her - it'sgoing to mean a more caring, passionate and powerful relationship.
Here's how to make your woman stronger in a particular area:
* Have her express that she's already strong in that area * "Catch" her doing good things and let her know that you like that * Reinforce it during your most intimate moments
Step 1 - Your woman can't become anything she doesn't see herselfpossibly becoming, so get her to admit that she already is good ina particular area. By getting her to express to you how she is goodin a particular area will go a long way towards starting to buildthose positive traits within her.
"All of my friends are independent. How about you, are youindependent?"
"Hmm... do you consider yourself an ambitious person?"
"I love intelligent girls who love to learn and explore new things.Learn anything cool lately?"
"I really adore girls who are kind and thoughtful. Would youconsider yourself that way?"
These questions mean she's likely to find some things about herselfthat fit into what you're asking. Now, some women could never seethemselves as a particular trait. If she says she could never beambitious, then perhaps she couldn't - at least, for now. Give herevery opportunity to commit to already being what you like, as it'scrucial for long term success and growth. And if she can't meet animportant standard you have, then maybe you'll want move on fromthis particular girl. There's lots of women who are capable ofbeing really amazing.
Once she has admitted that she already is strong, then startcatching her being strong as frequently as possible. Whenever shementions doing something to grow and make progress, let her knowthat you love her ambition. When she tells you about something shelearned recently, mention how much you enjoy being with such asmart girl.
This is going to empower her to become even stronger. When someonethat you care about expresses that you're strong in a certain area,you actually strive to become even stronger. And it lets her knowexactly what you like, and what she can do to become an even bettermatch with you - your girl is not a mind-reader. By letting herknow what you like about her, she knows what areas she can explorewith you to get even closer.
"Baby I love that you are so independent and you're always doingcool things even when I'm really busy."
"Wow that's ambitious - I really dig that, you're always doing coolstuff."
"You're so smart. I really like that."
"That's really thoughtful of you - thank you, I appreciate it."
Finally, one of the most powerful times to grow together is in thebedroom. In the bedroom, you and your woman drop your shields, andyou can really make each other much stronger when you're makinglove. People are at their most open when in bed together, so thisis the perfect time to really share your strength with her and helpher become even more powerful.
During your lovemaking, you can tell your girlfriend:
"It feels so good being with such an independent girl... we'refully with each other when we're together, and happy when we'reapart... and then more passionate together... it's so good..."
"Wow, it's so good to make love to such an ambitious girl. It turnsme on like crazy."
"Mmm, you're so smart and pretty and wonderful. I love being withyou"
"You're so good to me baby. Being with you is so good."
This has a real, permanent impact on her and she grows muchstronger. When you get a girlfriend that's got the base characterto become amazingly powerful, you can help her reach all of herpotential and become, really and truly, the woman of your dreams.

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The worst thing you can be is a cockblocker.

2008-05-16T01:26:00.000-07:00

So after millions of years of no posting, here I'm with some updates. Tonight I was a total cockblocker to my best friend. He is a natural at pick up so I guess I got jealous cause girls just seem to approach him for no reason. This made me realize I'm still a rookie, not so much a AFC but still a rookie. I feel like a dick head. Well on the others side is the good news is that at the age of 27 I finally got laid. I know all about the skepticism out there about the seducction community but let me tell you, all the stuff they're talking about works. Anybody out there that's having trouble with the ladies please follow some of my links and find yourself inspired to change your lives.

Peace and happy PU.

Update on Plentyoffish.

2008-03-10T23:56:00.001-07:00

One page all of you singles should check out is plentyoffish. This page is full of beuatiful women and after you get the hang of it, it should be easy to get some dates out of this site.

Here is my latest number close:

How to talk to any woman.

2008-03-03T23:31:00.000-08:00

YOU: “Hey, can I ask you a quick question?” (leaning back and playing it cool, talking cool and slow)

HER: “Sure”

(pause.. pause.. pause for suspense)

YOU: “Are you single?” (stone cold straight face)

HER: “Well, um…”

YOU: “I’ll take that as a yes…” (nodding, sly smile)

HER: (Laughter)

YOU: “Well, I just happen to know someone that I think might really like you… if you’re more than just a pretty face, that is… He’s funny, has great taste, and I think you’d like him… I’d love to sit down and get your life story, but I’m on my way somewhere… do you have email?” (very cool, calm tone of voice)

HER: “Yes.”

YOU: Great… (takes out pen)… write it down for me, and I’ll have, uh (clears throat) HIM send you an email.”

(Get email and wish the lady a good day.)

Creating a sexual presence.

2008-02-05T03:09:00.000-08:00

1. Less is more.

Move as little as you need to, and when you react, do it with delay
Slow down all your movements, as if you were moving underwater
When you do move, it should be bold and purposeful

2. Poeticize your presence.

Act as if you were a spectacle to be witnessed
Draw attention to your every move using strong eye contact, and delaying responses
Always try and appear to be more comfortable than anyone else. Lean back when standing, angle back, drape your arms when sitting

Be carefree and content; act like you neither want nor need anything

3. Emphasize your sexuality

Relax your eyes. Check out (and model) the look in their eyes that Jim Morrison, Phil Lynott, and even Marilyn Monroe have
Slightly purse your lips, as if you’re about to kiss the girl you’re talking to
Tilt your head up, and look down when speaking
Study a woman’s face intently during your interaction with her, and keep glancing at her lips
Keep an inquisitory look of mild arousal on your face

I began modeling my body language based on this list and the results were epic. This is the reason I stopped using routines, I no longer needed them. Everything they communicated I could now communicate with my body. Even openers started to become unnecessary as women were now opening ME more than ever, based simply on the way I stood and the look on my face. Attraction went from slowly earned to instantaneous, but there were still some gaps…
The hottest women, although attracted, would still shit test me. Not only that, but guys started to become more of a problem as I was now getting a tremendous amount of female attention. This is where the second quality I found amongst sexual rock icons came in handy, and allowed me to smoothly and effortlessly diffuse any weird behaviour that was thrown at me… coming soon!

If nothing else, say this.

2008-01-23T02:06:00.000-08:00

"Hey … you guys seem fun … where you guys from?” credit to Mehow. As an AFC in recovery I'm yet to first open my first set. I haven't worked on creating a routine but if you are like me and you don't usually know what to say, start by saying what I wrote at the start of this post. I believe that even though it seems like a very direct opener it should work, but only if you my fellow AFC have taken the time to work on your inner game and body language.

~Kino Kokoro

What's your favorite color? Cold reading technique.

2008-01-18T02:19:00.001-08:00

Hey Guys,
Remember when you were a little kid, and everyone asked their favorite color? And it was a big deal. I remember my favorite color was green and my brother's alternated between red and blue. After a while, he switched to green too. My little brother was "lellow" (I don't think I ever asked him again after he developed the faculty of intelligent pronunciation in speech). Anyway, what I just told you is the routine introduction. From there, you simply ask

PUA: "What's your favorite color?"
HB: Pink, why?
PUA: I was reading this book, and it deals with personality typing based on your favorite color. Tell me what you think. Pink is....

Read the text below for an idea of interpretations for each color. If you trust your instincts you can also improvise.

White: Symbolic of purity, innocence, and naivete, white has strong connotations of youth and purity. If you are an older person, your preference for white could indicate a desire for perfection and impossible ideals, maybe an attempt to recapture lost youth and freshness. It may also symbolize a desire for simplicity or the simple life.

Red: The color of strength, health, and vitality, Red is often the color chosen by someone outgoing, aggressive, vigorous, and impulsive--or who would like to be! It goes with an ambitious nature but those who choose it can be abrupt at times, determined to get all they can out of life, quick to judge people and take sides. Red people are usually optimistic and can't stand monotony; they are rather restless and not at all introspective, so they may be unaware of their own shortcomings. They find it hard to be objective and may blame others for any mishaps. Quiet people with a preference for red may feel the need for the warmth, strength and life-giving qualities of the color, or they blanket their true feelings under a sober exterior. Red is usually chosen by those with open and uncomplicated natures, with a zest for life.

Maroon: Harsh experience has probably matured the Maroon person into someone likeable and generous. It is often a favorite color of someone who has been battered by life but has come through. It indicates a well-disciplined Red personality--one who has had difficult experiences and has not come through unmarked but who has grown and matured in the process.

Pink: This color embodies the gentler qualities of Red, symbolizing love and affection without passion. Women who prefer Pink tend to be maternal. Pink desires protection, special treatment, and a sheltered life. Pink people require affection and like to feel loved and secure, perhaps wanting to appear delicate and fragile. Pink people tend to be charming and gentle, if a trifle indefinite.

Orange: This color of luxury and pleasure appeals to the flamboyant and fun-loving person who likes a lively social round. Orange people may be inclined to dramatize a bit, and people notice them, but they are generally good-natured and popular. They can be a little fickle and vacillating, but on the whole they try hard to be agreeable. Orange is the color of youth, strength, fearlessness, curiosity, and restlessness.

Yellow: The color of happiness, wisdom, and imagination, Yellow is chosen by the mentally adventurous, searching for novelty and self-fulfillment. Yellow usually goes with a sunny and shrewd personality, with a good business head and a strong sense of humor. It is the color of intellectuality and all things to do with the mind. Yellow folks are usually clear and precise thinkers who have a good opinion of their own mental capacities and who have lofty ideals. They may at times tend to shun responsibility, preferring freedom of thought and action.

Green: The color of harmony and balance, Green symbolizes hope, renewal, and peace, and is usually liked by the gentle and sincere. Greens are generally frank, community-minded people, fairly sociable but preferring peace at any price. Green people can he too self-effacing, modest, and patient and so may get exploited by others. They are usually refined, civilized, and reputable.

Blue: Soft, soothing, compassionate and caring, Blue is the color of deliberation and introspection, conservatism and duty. Patient, persevering, conscientious, sensitive and self-controlled, Blues like to be admired for their steady character and wisdom. They are faithful, but are often worriers with somewhat inflexible beliefs and can be too cautious, and suspicious of flamboyant behavior.

Blue-Green: Exacting, discriminating, poised and attractive, the Blue-Green person tends to be sensitive, intellectual and refined, persevering and stable if rather detached. Blue-Greens have excellent taste, and are usually courteous and charming, capable but often refusing help or guidance.

Turquoise: Complex, imaginative, and original, Turquoise people drive themselves hard and may be in a state of turmoil under their outwardly cool exterior.

Lavender: This is often chosen by a person who lives "on a higher plane", who never notices anything sordid and who is always impeccably and beautifully dressed. Lavender people may be on a continual quest for culture and the refined things of life, high and noble causes but without the necessity of getting their hands dirty. A Lavender person is usually creative, charming, witty and civilized.

Purple: Purples are highly individual, fastidious, witty, and sensitive, with a strong desire to be unique and different. Temperamental, expansive and artistic, a Purple person may become aloof and sarcastic when misunderstood. If you chose Purple, you tend to be unconventional, tolerant, and dignified, likely to achieve positions of authority.

Brown: A Brown person has stamina and patience, tending to be very solid and substantial, conscientious, dependable, steady, and conservative. Browns are not impulsive, and may be inarticulate and tactless but they love responsibility and are reliable and kindly. If you chose Brown, watch out for a tendency to be obstinate and inflexible.

Gray: The color of caution and compromise, diligent Grays search for composure and peace and often work hard without reward. Older Grays like life to run on an even keel with few ups and downs. Young Grays may be withdrawing from life and suppressing their personalities. Grays often have good business ability and tend to over-work.

Black: Dignified and impressive without being showy, Black people want to give the appearance of mystery, but their preference may also indicate a suppression of desires and worldly aims, suggesting hidden depths and inner longings.

The Ring Finger Routine (credit to Style).

2008-01-18T02:11:00.000-08:00

I. THE RING FINGER ROUTINE

Notice a gleam of metal on her fingers (a ring) and say, “I have to ask before I run: Whydid you chose to wear that ring on that particular finger….Interesting…Do you always wearthose rings on the same fingers?” (Note: Of course they always do, because that’s wherethey fit.)Then continue, “I have a friend who’s a spiritual type, and she just told me that like thefinger you choose to wear your rings on says something about your personality…”If she is not wearing any rings, just ask instead, “Out of curiosity, and I’ll explain why I’masking in a second, when you do wear rings, what fingers are they usually on?” If shenormally doesn’t wear wings, ask, “Well, if you were to wear a ring, and it wasn’t awedding ring obviously, what finger would it be on?”Then go on to explain:“Each one of these mounds” – the pads on the palm where the fingers join the hand -isrepresented by a different God, and in Greek culture, you wear a ring on that finger topraise and pay homage to that particular god.“For example, the thumb represents Poseidon which as you know is the god of the sea.And he was very independent. He was the only god who didn't live on Mount Olympus. Hedid his own thing. And the thumb kind of sticks out, it kind of does its own thing. Peoplewho wear thumb rings are therefore very individual and independent and generally dotheir own thing. They don’t follow trends, but prefer instead to set their own.The index finger is represented by Zeus. Zeus was the king of all gods, and the God ofThunder and Lightning. That's a very dominant finger, and having a ring there means youtend to be a more dominant person.” (Wave your index finger at them like "no no no" or"don't do that.”) It represents power and immense energy.Your middle finger is represented by Dionysus who is the god of wine and partying. He isa very irreverent God. So if you have a ring there, it means you tend to do what ever youwant and care less about what others think.” (Then lift your middle finger up on its ownand give the bird and say, “It’s like fuck you to the world.” When they are wearing a ringon that finger, they always laugh at this.)“Your ring finger is of course represented by Aphrodite. She is the goddess of love, andthat is why we wear our wedding rings on that finger. (You can add all kinds of romanticcold-reading lines here, like, "When you fall for someone, you tend to fall completely forthem.”)“Interestingly, it is the only finger that has a vein that goes straight to the heart withoutbranching off, and so when someone puts a ring on that finger, they’re actually making adirect connection with your heart.” (If she is comfortable, you can trace a line from herfinger up her arm as you say this.)“The pinky is represented by Ares. who is the God of war, and that's why you seemobsters wearing pinky rings, It represents conflict.”If she is wearing a pinky ring, ask, "Did you buy that yourself or did someone give it toyou?” If she bought it herself, it means she is sometimes at war with herself and hassome inner conflict, maybe an emotional conflict or something she is not comfortable withherself about. If she was given it by someone ask, then ask by whom and tell her theremay be some tension below the surface between the two of them, some unresolvedproblem that she just haven't solved yet.If the women ask, “How do you know this?" You may respond, "An ex-girlfriend of minewas into mythology and taught it to me."If she has a ring on her wedding finger ask, "Is that an engagement ring or do you justwear that to keep the womanizers away?" You’ll be surprised how often the latter is true.

II. POCKET GUIDETHUMB = Poseidon, representing individualityI
NDEX = Zeus, representing dominance, power, and energy
MIDDLE = Dionysus, representing irreverence, rebelliousness, and decadence
RING = Aphrodite, representing love and romance
PINKY = Ares, representing conflict

III. ALTERNATE VERSION FOR EXPERIENCED USERSNote: This version names Roman, rather than Greek, godsAre you right or left handed? Now the rings on your dominant hand have to do with yourconscious decisions and thoughts. The rings on your non-dominant hand have to do withthe way you are unconsciously. These are the things you may not even realize aboutyourself and are under the surface of your daily life.Neptune/thumb. Remember Neptune is a water god and he is quick to change and flow.he could be roused to anger quite easily. You are quick to defend yourself and get angrywhen your individuality isn't respected.Jupiter/index. Jupiter was the king of the gods. and he was sort of a player type god. He'dshift and change his physical form on earth just to get a girl. It'd always piss his wife offobviously. Jupiter was always unapologetic because he had confidence in his leadership.You're the kind of person who tends to adapt to any situation and take charge. Sometimesit takes a lightning bolt though and you can anger people, so be careful of that.Bacchus/middle. Bacchus was the god of wine, as most people know, but he was also godof theater and was a bringer of freedom from the normal self through madness or ecstasy.He was on a mission to free people of worry and concern. You like to do what you wantand need the freedom to do so. You don't always want to worry about consequences andresults, and sometimes this gets you into trouble.Venus/ring. Venus was the god of love and beauty and that's why we wear a weddingband on the ring finger. You depend on interpersonal relationships and are always seekingbeauty in your life. The biggest characteristic of Venusian love is giving. You have agenerous personality and try to spread good feelings to other people.Mars/pinky. Everybody says Mars is the god of war, but he was also god of fertility and aprotector of boundaries. Mars rules passion and raw energy. You're a highly volatile andpassionate person. People probably call you a firecracker. You're fun to be around, butsometimes you explode. Sometimes you get into conflicts with yourself and other peopleand you need to get calm to rationalize and compromise.You can also tell her that: People also use rings on whichever finger to work on a certaintype of energy. Maybe you feel you're not being much of an individual lately, so you needto wear a thumb ring to help you bring out that side of your personality.SpecialThanksTo: MintedMav, Rockview, and Gridlock.

Moving to Colorado

2008-01-12T02:41:00.001-08:00

I finally decided to move to Denver Colorado. I have no idea why I wanna do this stupid move since I love California. Well let's see what happens. I hope women are as hot as they are here in Cali. My PU skills are still not fully developed as I'm still working on my inner game. I have some major reconstruction to do in this area. Anyways as far as attracting females I have seen a positive change in this area. Inner game should be something that any aspiring PUA should start with. I'm currently atracting women naturally, the only problem is that I'm still a wuss and I don't take things foward. Before women used to avoid being around me anywhere I went. At the checkout line in the supermaket, at the post office, etc. Now they even chase me around. Well anyone out there trying to get better with women should get started with reading some material about inner game.

Peace,
~Kino Kokoro

Eight Characteristics that give a man the best chance to score with women.

2008-01-12T02:30:00.000-08:00

For a man, successfully meeting women is all about how you ACT. Period. Sure, you have to look halfway decent in the way you dress, stay groomed and not stink like the chunk of two month old polish sausage that I just found hiding in the back of my refrigerator the other day... but the make-or-break factor is and always will be the WORDS that come out of your mouth, and the ATTITUDE that underlies it.
With that in mind, here's eight points to load into your mental backpack when you're getting ready to go off to battle (which is to say, every day of your life...)
1) Remain Focused on the Game -- The art of attracting women is all about knowing how to engage them with a natural curiosity that shows you are at least a little bit interested in *their* world (WARNING: too much = a slick phoney, so be careful). Look for LifeLines (anything that she's hinting she would be open to talking about) and stay committed to working them. Forget about yourself. Fade out your own ego. There'll be plenty of time in the future to gab about your own amazing life.
Remember this: you are NEVER desperately looking for an "ear to bend" -- you are always looking to draw HER out instead. Only those lost souls with limited social contact hungrily crave the attention of any person they can corner into listening to their non-stop yabbering (I'm not trying to sound cruel here, just honest).
Tune out the surrounding world and focus in on her as if you were the only two people in the universe. If done properly (without any subservient whimpering), this kind of attention is flattering to her in an almost breathtakingly way.
2) Stay Calm -- Above all else, act like you're familiar with this whole process. Seduction always begins as a low pressure event. Place her at ease with your laid back demeanor, and let her slowly begin to feed off of it. Be a lighthearted flirt. Don't be obvious -- keep your interest vague so as to give everyone an "out" to protect all egos involved (both yours and hers). She will appreciate your tactful approach immensely, and be impressed with your consideration and charm.
3) Demonstrate Charisma (Likability) -- Sometime during the course of the evening, offer a single simple compliment about something unique to her style and presentation about herself. No canned "You have such beautiful eyes..." compliments. Don't go overboard or make a big deal about ANY compliments that you pay her. Make them seem casual and unplanned (a sudden pleasant thought that just popped into your head and slipped out before you could stop it...), then IMMEDIATELY move on to other topics. Trust me, she heard it.
4) Touch Her To Seduce Her -- Use any excuse you can dream up to get a hand on her. Of course I mean only in the appropriate places... an arm, shoulder, a hair brushback. Do not grope her like a desperate fool. Touch is extremely important because it demonstrates a sexual, "manly" interest in her and keeps you away from the deadly "nice-guy-friend" category. Just make sure you always keep it classy.
5) Risk Taking Is A Turn-On -- Take a chance... a bold comment, break the speed limit, whatever... Stay unpredictable and keep her a little off balance. Men are powerful and at ease with themselves , right? (see item #2...)
6) Be A Man, Not A Boy -- Keep your apartment styled in a mature fashion -- avoid the frat-house look even though your football buddies will probably declare you a big puss. A few REAL house plants (the kind you actually have to water... yee-gads!), and dark solids everywhere. A few *paintings* (don't spend a fortune, just hit the flea markets) instead of the Pam Anderson poster. Got it? Also (very important) junk the "bunk" and get yourself a double-sized bed (because you entertain female company from time to time, that's why) Time to bury the Star Wars bed sheets too. Keep a few bottles of wine in stock and the kind of goodies hiding around the house that a girl would like (popcorn, cheese, ice cream, etc.) for when you want to veg out in front of the tube and get her loosened up.
7) Nurture The Trance Of Romance -- Take her out to see a mushy chick flick by surprise... make a dinner and light a silly candle on a "spontaneous" whim (nothing is spontaneous to a real Seducer...). Do the things that trigger those romantic thoughts and dreams that attract women naturally by pulling up all their fuzziest memories. You'll score major points for creativity!
8) Project The Attitude Of The High Status Male» -- You must NEVER allow yourself to act like a fawning "nice guy"... but you always want to SEEM like one (for an in-depth examination of this all-important topic read this free article on my site... http://www.highstatusmale.com/article_015.htm ). Imagine you have a harem waiting for you back home, and you're trying to determine if she would make a nice new addition. I'm serious. This is the kind of unspoken "winners" attitude that you must keep burning in the far recesses of your mind at all times when you're dating women.
Assume that she likes you and will respond favorably to your charm, but never assume you have a green light to start telling fart jokes or break into your full blown comedy club routine. Humor is all about the CLEVER observation of the absurdities of everyday life -- not the repeating of dumb jokes you read in Hustler or doing your lame celebrity impressions... ("Do I make you horny baby?") That's why they call it a SENSE of humor... you need to base your wit on what you *sense* to be going on around you, which often lies beneath the obvious.
So there you have it. Try a few of these attitude adjustments for yourself -- maybe just as an experiment if you can't face the idea of actually changing anything permanently about yourself. Let me know what happens.

First number close on Plentyoffish.

2008-01-11T01:43:00.000-08:00

Well I've been messing with Plentyoffish for a while and I got my first number close.

The Five Oceans Opener

2008-01-09T01:08:00.000-08:00

YOU: Hey, quick question, how good were you at high school geography?
HER: Um, okay, I guess.
YOU: Okay, great. How many continents are there?
HER: Seven?
YOU: Right. And how many oceans?
HER: Five/Fifteen/I don't know.
YOU: Right, there are five. So here's the question: what are the five oceans? Me and my friend have been stuck on this all day. We can only come up with four.

NOTE: If you don't know the names of the oceans, don't look them up online. Go out and ask. Now you have a legitimate reason to use the opener.

BACKUP PLAN: If, in the extremely rare case, you happen to run into a woman who's read the book and calls you out on the opener, no problem. You both now have something in common. So don't scamper off, just smile and tell them that you'd just tell them that you'd just read The Game and had decided to test out the material tonight. Then initiate a discussion about the book or the best way to approach women or ways she's been approached by guys. As long as you two are talking, the opener is successful.

Cool direct opener plus Qualifier.

2007-12-28T03:28:00.000-08:00

Me : You’re an attractive girl/ have nice eyes/ face structure etc but there more to life that looks as they fade with time. What I find attractive in a woman is Drive, sense of humour and loyalty. (add other values if you wish)

HB . Really? (Normally amazed looks weren’t in the list)

Me: I am serious. What 3 things make you attractive to men? These can't be looks, money or your job.

At this point all 3 successes above listed 2 or more of the values I want as one they possessed. A clear IOI as they were selling themselves to me in the package I requested. Usually followed by doggy bowl looks or them touching me.

When a girl keeps bugging you.

2007-12-28T02:39:00.000-08:00

Something that you could respond with when a girl is teasing you is to threathen to hold her upside down if she keeps bugging you. If she decides to test you then go ahead and hold her upside down.

Some questions for online interactions.

2007-12-27T02:11:00.000-08:00

You seem pretty interesting, but I’m not sure if we have a lot in common. Please answer some of these questions:What is the best quality about yourself?

What is your favorite movie or book?

If you had a lot of money, what is the best place you would most want to visit?

Name one character from a TV show or movie that you identify with?

What super power would you pick?

What is the ONE thing you would love to do with your life?

Finally, what’s with the _____ ” (This question should bust a little on something in her profile)

(This question should bust a little on something in her profile)Now, the above questions are JUST examples. You want to create your own thought provoking questions that brings out the interesting side of your personality.

This is one of V's online tests

2007-12-27T01:18:00.000-08:00

Subject: Re: hey

Hey [INSERT GIRLS NAME HERE],
I’m not the greatest when it comes to e-mailing strangers though I’ll do my best.
There was something about your profile that attracted me. I can’t quite put my finger on it, maybe it’s a feeling I have.
Your profile left me with little, though made me very curious. Because of this I will ask you THE FIVE MOST IMPORTANT QUESTIONS EVER!
1. What makes you YOU?2. If you could go anywhere right this second, where would you go?3. Why would you go there?4. What is your favourite colour?5. What is the best song by Phil Collins?
James

His results:
Sent - 50 (all sent on June 14, 2007)
Responses - 8 (as of June 15, 2007)
Numbers - 2 (as of June 15, 2007)

Snapple facts to keep a conversation going by Social Rockstar

2007-12-19T01:34:00.000-08:00

Here is a great list of "Snapple Facts" that you can throw in when yourun out of things to say to a girl or need a second to think of what to do next.

You can use them by doing something like this:

"Hey did you know Goldfish have an attention span of only three seconds...hey that's like you! maybe you evolved from a goldfish...lol"

Snapple Facts (#1 - #109)

#1 A Goldfish's attention span is three seconds
#2 Animals that lay eggs dont have belly buttons
#3 Beavers can hold their breathe for 45 minutes under water
#4 Slugs have 4 noses
#5 Camels have 3 eyelids
#6 A honey bee can fly at 15mph
#7 A queen bee can lay 800-1500 eggs per day
#8 A bee has 5 eyes
#9 The average speed of a housefly is 4.5 mph
#10 Mosquitos are attracted to people who just ate bananas
#11 Flamingos are pink because they eat shrimp
#12 Emus and Kangaroos cannot walk backward
#13 Cats have over 100 vocal chords
#14 Camel's milk does not curdle
#15 All porcupines float in water
#16 The world's termites outweigh the world's humans 10 to 1
#17 A hummingbird weighs less then a penny
#18 A jellyfish is 95% water
#19 Children grow faster in the spring
#20 Broccoli is the only vegetable that is also a flower
#21 Almonds are part of the peach family
#22 Alaska has the highest percentage of people who walk to work
#23 The San Francisco Cable cars are th only mobile national monument
#24 The state of maine has 62 lighthouses
#25 The only food that does not spoil is honey
#26 The Hawaiian alphabet only has 12 letters
#27 A ball of glass will bounce higher then a ball of rubber
#28 Chewing gum while peeling onions will prevent you from crying
#29 On average a human will spend up to 2 weeks kissing in his/herlifetime
#30 Fish have eyelids
#31 The average human will eat an average of 8 spiders while sleeping
#32 There are one million ants to every human in the world
33 Termites eat through wood two times faster when listening to rockmusic!
#34 If you keep a goldfish in a dark room it will eventually turn white
#35 Elephants only sleep 2 hours a day
#36 A duck's quack doesn't echo
#37 A snail breathes through it's foot
#38 Fish cough..
.#39 An ant's smell is stronger then a dog's
#40 It is possible to lead a cow up stairs but not down
#41 Shrimp can only swim backward
#42 Frogs cannot swallow with their eyes open
#43 A cat's lower jaw cannot move sideways
#44 The bullfrog is the only animal that never sleeps
#45 Elephants are capable of swimming 20 miles per day
#46 Elephants are the only mammal that cannot jump
#47 Giraffes have no vocal chords
#48 Cats can hear ultrasound
#49 Despite its hump...camel's have a straight spine
#50 Mosquitos have 47 teeth
#51 There are 63,360 inches in a mile
#52 11% of people in the world are lefthanded
#53 The average women consumes 6lbs of lipstick in her lifetime
#54 The average smell weighs 760 nanograms
#55 A human brain weighs about 3lbs
#56 1/4 of the bones in your body are in your feet
#57 You blink over 10,000,000 times a year
#58 A sneeze travels out of your nose at 100mph
#59 Brain waves can be used to power an electric train
#60 A tongue is the fastest healing part of the body
#61 Pigs get sunburn
#62 The lifespan of a tastebud is 10 days
#63 The average human produces 10,000 gallons of saliva in a lifetime
#64 Strawberries contain more Vitamin C then oranges
#65 A one-day weather forecast requires about 10 billion mathcalculations
#66 Americans on average eat 18 acres of pizza a day
#67 There are 18 different animal shapes in the Animal cracker zoo
#68 The longest one syllabled word is "screeched"
#69 No word in the english language rhymes with month
#70 A "jiffy" is actually 1/100 of a second
#71 There is a town called "Big Ugly" in West Virginia
#72 The average person uses 150 gallons of water per day for personal use
#73 The average person spends 2 weeks of it's life waiting for atraffic light to change
#74 You share your birthday with 9 million others in the world
#75 The average person makes 1,140 phone calls per year
#76 The average person spends 2 years on the phone in his/her lifetime
#77 No piece of paper can be folded more then 7 times
#78 Alaska is the most eastern and western state in the US
#79 There are 119 grooves on the edge of a quarter
#80 About 18% of Animal owners share their bed with their pet
#81 Alaska has more caribou then people
#82 August has the highest percent of births
#83 Googol is a number (1 followed by 100 zeros)
#84 Oysters can change genders back and forth
#85 The Mona Lisa has no eyebrows
#86 Until the 19th century solid blocks of tea were used as money inSiberia
#87 A mile on the ocean and a mile on land are not the same distance
#88 A ten gallon hat holds less then one gallon of liquid
#89 The average American walks 18,000 steps a day
#90 The average raindrop falls at 7mph#91 There are more telephones then people in Washington D.C.
#92 Fish can drown
#93 A Kangaroo can jump 30 feet
#94 Lizards communicate by doing push-ups
#95 Squids can have eyeballs the size of volleyballs
#96 The average American will eat 35,000 cookies in his/her lifetime
#97 A turkey can run at 20mph
#98 When the moon is directly over you, you weigh less
#99 You burn 20 calories an hour chewing gum
#100 In a year, the average person walks 4 miles makeing their bed
#101 About half of all Americans are on a diet at any given time
#102 A one-minute kiss burns 26 calories
#103 Frowning burns more calories then smiling
#104 There are more then 30,000 diets on public record
#105 You will burn 7% more calories walking on hard dirt then pavement
#106 You way less at the top of a mountain then sea level
#107 You burn more calories sleeping then watching TV
#108 Licking a stamp burns 10 calories
#109 Smelling apples and/or bananas can help you loose weight

:)-Race (hatch)

100 Motivational Quotes by V from Becomingapua.com

2007-12-16T06:45:00.001-08:00

Like David DeAngelo, I too enjoy quotes. Here are 100 motivational quotes that you can read during your free time.

1. We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, therefore, is not an act but a habit.- Aristotle
2. The best way out is always through.- Robert Frost
3. Do not wait to strike till the iron is hot; but make it hot by striking.- William B. Sprague
4. Great spirits have always encountered violent opposition from mediocre minds.- Albert Einstein
5. Whether you think you can or think you can’t, you’re right.- Henry Ford
6. I know for sure that what we dwell on is who we become.- Oprah Winfrey
7. “I’ve missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I’ve lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I’ve been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.”- Michael Jordan
8. You must be the change you want to see in the world.- Mahatma Gandhi
9. What you get by achieving your goals is not as important as what you become by achieving your goals.- Goethe
10. You can get everything in life you want if you will just help enough other people get what they want.- Zig Ziglar
11. Whatever you do will be insignificant, but it is very important that you do it.- Mahatma Gandhi
12. Desire is the starting point of all achievement, not a hope, not a wish, but a keen pulsating desire which transcends everything.- Napoleon Hill
13. Failure is the condiment that gives success its flavor.- Truman Capote
14. Vision without action is daydream. Action without vision is nightmare.- Japanese Proverb
15. In any situation, the best thing you can do is the right thing; the next best thing you can do is the wrong thing; the worst thing you can do is nothing.- Theodore Roosevelt
16. If you keep saying things are going to be bad, you have a chance of being a prophet.- Isaac B. Singer
17. Success consists of doing the common things of life uncommonly well.- Unknown
18. Keep on going and the chances are you will stumble on something, perhaps when you are least expecting it. I have never heard of anyone stumbling on something sitting down.- Charles F. Kettering, Engineer and Inventor
19. Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.- Mark Twain
20. Losers visualize the penalties of failure. Winners visualize the rewards of success.- Unknown
21. Some succeed because they are destined. Some succeed because they are determined.- Unknown
22. Experience is what you get when you don’t get what you want.- Dan Stanford
23. Setting an example is not the main means of influencing others; it is the only means.- Albert Einstein
24. A happy person is not a person in a certain set of circumstances, but rather a person with a certain set of attitudes.- Hugh Downs
25. If you’re going to be able to look back on something and laugh about it, you might as well laugh about it now.- Marie Osmond
26. Remember that happiness is a way of travel, not a destination.- Roy Goodman
27. If you want to test your memory, try to recall what you were worrying about one year ago today.- E. Joseph Cossman
28. What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.- Ralph Waldo Emerson
29. We judge of man’s wisdom by his hope.- Ralph Waldo Emerson
30. The best way to cheer yourself up is to try to cheer somebody else up.- Mark Twain
31. Age is an issue of mind over matter. If you don’t mind, it doesn’t matter.- Mark Twain
32. Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it’s time to pause and reflect.- Mark Twain
33. Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become great.- Mark Twain
34. The surest way not to fail is to determine to succeed.- Richard B. Sheridan
35. Take the first step in faith. You don’t have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step.”- Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.
36. “Act or accept.”- Unanonymous
37. Many great ideas go unexecuted, and many great executioners are without ideas. One without the other is worthless.- Tim Blixseth
38. The world is more malleable than you think and it’s waiting for you to hammer it into shape.- Bono
39. Sometimes you just got to give yourself what you wish someone else would give you.- Dr Phil
40. Motivation is a fire from within. If someone else tries to light that fire under you, chances are it will burn very briefly.- Stephen R. Covey
41. People become really quite remarkable when they start thinking that they can do things. When they believe in themselves they have the first secret of success.- Norman Vincent Peale
42. Whenever you find whole world against you just turn around and lead the world.- Anonymous
43. Being defeated is only a temporary condition; giving up is what makes it permanent.- Marilyn vos Savant, Author and Advice Columnist
44. I can’t understand why people are frightened by new ideas. I’m frightened by old ones.- John Cage
45. Setting an example is not the main means of influencing others; it is the only means.- Albert Einstein
46. The difference between ordinary and extraordinary is that little extra.- Unknown
47. The best way to predict the future is to create it.- Unknown
48. Anyone can do something when they WANT to do it. Really successful people do things when they don’t want to do it.- Dr. Phil
49. There are two primary choices in life: to accept conditions as they exist, or accept the responsibility for changing them.- Dr. Denis Waitley
50. Success is the ability to go from failure to failure without losing your enthusiasm.- Sir Winston Churchill
51. Success seems to be connected with action. Successful people keep moving. They make mistakes but don’t quit.- Conrad Hilton
52. Attitudes are contagious. Make yours worth catching.- Unknown
53. Do not let what you cannot do interfere with what you can do.- John Wooden
54. There are only two rules for being successful. One, figure out exactly what you want to do, and two, do it.- Mario Cuomo
55. Sooner or later, those who win are those who think they can.- Richard Bach
56. Vision doesn’t usually come as a lightening bolt. Rather it comes as a slow crystallization of life challenges that we one day recognize as a beautiful diamond with great value to ourselves and others.- Dr. Michael Norwood
57. Success is a state of mind. If you want success, start thinking of yourself as a success.- Dr. Joyce Brothers
58. Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try Again. Fail again. Fail better.- Samuel Beckett
59. Flops are a part of life’s menu and I’ve never been a girl to miss out on any of the courses.- Rosalind Russell
60. Cause Change & LeadAccept Change & SurviveResist Change & Die
- Ray Norda, Chairman, Novell
61. Winners lose much more often than losers. So if you keep losing but you’re still trying, keep it up! You’re right on track.- Matthew Keith Groves
62. An idea can turn to dust or magic, depending on the talent that rubs against it.- Bill Bernbach
63. An obstacle is often a stepping stone.- Prescott
64. Life is “trying things to see if they work”Ray Bradbury
65. If you worry about yesterday’s failures, then today’s successes will be few.Anonymous
66. Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it.Dennis P. Kimbro
67. We are all inventors, each sailing out on a voyage of discovery, guided each by a private chart, of which there is no duplicate. The world is all gates, all opportunities.Ralph Waldo Emerson
68. Knowing is not enough; we must apply. Willing is not enough; we must do.Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
69. In matters of style, swim with the current;in matters of principle, stand like a rock.Thomas Jefferson
70. I think and think for months and years. Ninety-nine times, the conclusion is false. The hundredth time I am right.Albert Einstein
71. Where the willingness is great, the difficulties cannot be great.Machiavelli.
72. Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will.Mahatma Gandhi
73. “You are what you think about all day long.” — Dr. Robert Schuller
74. What you do speaks so loudly that I cannot hear what you say” — Ralph Waldo Emerson”
75. “Success is not to be measured by the position someone has reached in life, but the obstacles he has overcome while trying to succeed.”Booker T. Washington
76. “Talent is formed in solitude, character in the bustle of the world.”- Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
77. “To avoid criticism do nothing, say nothing, be nothing.”- Elbert Hubbard
78. If you want to make your dreams come true, the first thing you have to do is wake up.- J.M. Power
79. By working faithfully eight hours a day you may eventually get to be boss and work twelve hours a day- Robert Frost
80. “I’ve learned that no matter what happens, or how bad it seems today, life does go on, and it will be better tomorrow.”- Maya Angelou
81. “The art of being wise is the art of knowing what to overlook.”- William James
82. “When I hear somebody sigh, ‘Life is hard,’ I am always tempted to ask, ‘Compared to what?’”- Sydney Harris
83. “Don’t let life discourage you; everyone who got where he is had to begin where he was.”- Richard L. Evans
84. “In three words I can sum up everything I’ve learned about life: It goes on.”- Robert Frost
85. “You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you stop to look fear in the face.”- Eleanor Roosevelt
86. Sometimes even to live is an act of courage.- Seneca
87. Do first things first, and second things not at all.- Peter Drucker.
88. The only people who find what they are looking for in life are the fault finders.- Foster’s Law
89. Defeat is not bitter unless you swallow it.- Joe Clark
90. I am an optimist. It does not seem too much use being anything else.- Winston Churchill
91. Positive anything is better than negative thinking.- Elbert Hubbard
92. People seem not to see that their opinion of the world is also a confession of character.- Ralph Waldo Emerson
93. Those who wish to sing, always find a song.- Swedish Proverb
94. If you’re going through hell, keep going.- Winston Churchill
95. The sun shines and warms and lights us and we have no curiosity to know why this is so; but we ask the reason of all evil, of pain, and hunger, and mosquitoes and silly people.- Ralph Waldo Emerson
96. Life is a shipwreck but we must not forget to sing in the lifeboats.- Voltaire
97. Enduring habits I hate…. Yes, at the very bottom of my soul I feel grateful to all my misery and bouts of sickness and everything about me that is imperfect, because this sort of thing leaves me with a hundred backdoors through which I can escape from enduring habits.- Friedrich Nietzsche, The Gay Science, 1882
98. There is no education like adversity.- Disraeli
99. He who has a why to live can bear almost any how.- Friedrich Nietzsche
100. Adversity introduces a man to himself.- Author Unknown

Getting the Touch by Sebastian from MastertheVibe.com

2007-12-16T06:28:00.000-08:00

Perspective… picture a group of three girls at a local college bar. The place is raucous and loud, and the girls are completely absorbed in their own group. They have drinks, dance some, and move in tandem. They are indivisible, going to the ladies room together, going to the dancefloor together, even approaching the bar at the same general time.

Then – a flashing smile of as a confident, blond-haired man gaits in. His dress of jeans and a polo shirt doesn’t set him apart, and his hair is nothing special. But as he approaches, he laughs and gives one of the three girls a light, playful pseudo-shove. He engages the whole group, and they swarm on him. Two of the three girls are really quite stunning to look at… the third, not as much. And that third girl wants to frown and interfere, but our likable blond man keeps engaging her, gives her a hug, takes her by the hand and salsa-spins her once.

And back to engaging the whole group, laughing, smiling, and joking. He directs the group to a mis-mash of barstools that have opened up around a high table, and the laughing and joking continues. The man ruffles the hair of the second prettiest girl, tickles he prettiest, winks at the… less pretty girl. The energy is fantastic.

Abruptly, he turns to girls two and three and says something, then takes the prettiest girl by the hand and leads her up a set of stairs. He moves to a set of couches in a quieter area of the bar and squeezes between two groups into enough space for one and a half people. Then he motions for the girl to sit next to him. She does, and of course they are sitting close together, and within minutes they’re kissing.

Welcome to Day 9 of the Vibe Mastery Series, provided to you for free courtesy of MastertheVibe.com.

Your touch is one of the single biggest weapons in your arsenal. To get physical with a woman, she has to be comfortable and enjoy your hands on her. You need to know how to touch and escalate confidently and coolly so she enjoys the process and wants more.

How to touch is a mystery for most men – today, we remedy that. Learn the three best kinds of kinesthetic techniques to engage in, and how to move forwards from light, friendly, casual touches into kissing into more.

The Power of Kinesthetics

There’s a theory that all people express themselves and learn best through one of three ways: Through audio, visual, or kinesthetic. That means they learn and express themselves best through hearing and speaking, seeing and imagery, or touch and feeling. Touch is very important for meeting and getting women who express themselves kinesthetically into your life. These women are often the most empathetic, nurturing, and physically expressive, and fantastic women. Touching also helps you get all kinds of women for obvious reasons, and having the touch of a gentle master will help you stimulate the mind of all women you meet.

How to Start Touching

Kino is short for “Kinesthetic”, and it’s something that every man should learn how to do well.

There’s three really good kinds of kino:

1. Playful Kino: This is touching that is light and fun, that makes everyone involved enjoy themselves more.

2. Protective Kino: Touching her in a way that makes her feel protected and safe.

3. Incidental: Kino that’s “just happening” because you two are very comfortable with each other.

Introducing Playful Kino

Playful Kino is a spice like a high quality pepper. In small quantities, it can really make a meal, adding a sense of refinement, luxury, complexity, and excellence to it. A little bit too much pepper starts to drown out the meal and becomes a bit distasteful… dousing something in pepper makes it inedible.

So you SPRINKLE playful kino into your interaction. A little playful kino soon after opening sets you apart from other men who are afraid to touch, and then you can add in a little every now and then to inject some energy into the interaction.

Common types of Playful Kino:

*Tickling her
*Ruffling her hair
*Spanking her
*Hip-bumping her
*Hot hands
*A light (very light!) shove
*Kid-like games like thumb wars
*Salsa spins
*More complicated spins*Picking her up and throwing her over your shoulder
*A light (very light!) punch in the arm or leg

Playful Kino is light and fun. Sprinkle some into the interaction and watch what your interactions get more charged up.

Introducing Protective Kino

Knight in Shining Armor time. Protective Kino makes her feel protected and safe, and is great for attraction. After just a few moments and a bit of connection, protective kino becomes appropriate and powerful.

One of the best kinds of touching ANYWHERE is where protective kino was derived from. Placing your hand on her lower back as you move through a crowded bar or cross a street is EXTREMELY attractive and makes you seem very, very powerful and masculine. As you move through the bar or across the street, gently but firmly place your hand on her lower back, “escorting” her onwards. It will make her feel warm and safe, and like you’re an absolute stud.
Other kinds of protective kino include going arm-in-arm like you’re promenading, taking her hand as you move through a venue, holding her closely to you as you’re sitting, or putting your arm out in front of her to stop her from moving forwards as you get to a street crossing. Engaging in protective kino signifies that you protect your own, that you’re a confident masculine man, and is a huge boon for attraction.

Your Gateway to Success: Incidental Kino

The best for last, incidental kino is the most subtle of the three kinds. It’s where you and the girl are touching but neither of you are consciously trying to do so. It happens naturally with couples who are comfortable with each other all the time. You’re going to replicate that by generating incidental kino.

You want to build incidental kino throughout the interaction by closing space. If your and her touching breaks off, do not rush to reengage it. You should break off and reresume incidental kino yourself. Again, you’re not trying to manufacture it. It’s “just happening”, because you two are so comfortable with each other.

Common forms of Incidental Kino:

Kneels interlocked sitting on barstools, brushing shoulders up against each other as you walk down the street, sharing an umbrella, speaking into her ear if it’s loud and all the touching associated with that, sitting next to each other on a couch, leaning over her to converse with her friend or your friend, taking something from her or handing something to her, and so on.

Always Incidental Kino Before Kissing

It’s this simple. If a girl is comfortable kissing you, she’ll be comfortable with the casual form of touching that is incidental kino. If she’s not comfortable with that light, nonchalant form of touching, she’s not ready to be kissed. And for a lot of cases where she might kiss you, incidental kino is more likely to make it happen.

Western cinema has filled guys’ heads with a lot of nonsense. You absolutely do not want to “Cross the Sahara” to kiss her. That’s where you look into her eyes from five feet away, and slowly lean in to kiss her. In real life, this does not work.

The only time it will work is if she’s given conscious thought to whether she wants to kiss you or not and has decided yes, then decides it’s the exact right moment, and then doesn’t get nervous (which many women do with a guy they like) when you go to kiss her in slow motion. So, do not try to “Cross the Sahara” to kiss her.

Instead, you should be so close to her that you can simply turn her chin with your finger and move your lips a few inches to meet hers. You two should be touching closely, incidentally, before going to kiss.

A Few Other Escalation Pointers

One of the best ways you can set positive precedence for kissing before going to kiss her is to reward with her a kiss on the cheek when she does something you like. If she buys you a drink, gives you a compliment, or says something that really impressed you, you can go, “I like that” and give her a kiss on the cheek. You can also tap your cheek with two fingers to get her to kiss you on the cheek.

This makes her more comfortable with your lips on her, and her lips on you. Combined with incidental kino, it’s going to eliminate the “turning and giving you the cheek” phenomenon.

Some Rules For Touching

All Kino should seem either Spontaneous or Subconscious. That means it should never seem premeditated, planned, or forced. Some helpful tips for you:
Playful kino is always spontaneous, and being done lightly in the spirit of the moment. Sprinkle playful kino in, it’s best used as a spice in small doses.
Do protective kino like you make it. No waffling on whether you’re going to put your arm around her. Playful kino can either be spontaneous or subconscious, but make sure you’re doing it in a masculine, protective way.

Incidental kino is supposedly not being consciously generated (even though both you and the woman are aware of it). It’s “just happening” because you two are comfortable with each other. As such, it’s always subconscious on your part – if she breaks it off, don’t immediately scoot back in to her. Let it rest and restart it in a moment. Make sure you break off incidental kino from time to time as well, then restart it.

Lastly, never look where you touch. It “asks for permission” so to speak. Just go for it, if your hand is in the wrong place she’ll let you know.

Touching is absolutely fantastic for your game. Employing solid touching and kinesthetics will capture her mind and body. It’s especially powerful and necessary for some of the most fun, passionate girls and works well on all girls. Remember to engage in incidental kino before you go to kiss, because it’s a win/win proposition.

This wraps up this installment of the Vibe Mastery Series, presented for free courtesy of MastertheVibe at:
http://www.masterthevibe.com
See you next time fellas,
Sebastian

Time to start opening.

2007-12-14T01:51:00.000-08:00

Well I really needed some serious work on my inner issuses. My selfsteem was seriously non-existant and I was very depressed. I'm currently 27 and since I was a teenager and started to look for dates I failed misserably at every attempt. It is amazing to me how the simple fact of not being succesful with women will litteraly ruin your life. I had thoughts of suicide in the past and I always had a bad case of anxiety in every aspect of my life. I have to confess that depression when it hit me after moving away from home, really impacted my life and I lost three years of my life dealing with it. I guess this post is meant for those of you who are feeling the same way right now and please know that there are ways to overcome and defeat all this pain you are feeling right now. Since I joined the PUA community after watching the VH1 show I started reading material on how to be successful with women. For getting me out of the depths of my missery I have to thank Mystery and Style. Props to you guys for making good in this World.

I've been working on my inner game for the past four months and if you are the same way I was then this is the first step you should take in order to start your journey to becoming a pick up artist. I've changed my negative bodylanguage, I began to dress better and to have a more positive energy or vibe around me. The results are enourmous and even though I still haven't gotten any dates I've been getting some serious eye contact and IOIs. HBs at church, starbucks, walmart, restaurants and at work are showing some very obvious signs of being attracted to me. The reason that nothing has happened yet is that I'm still afraid of opening. This is going to change and I'm ready for the next step. I have to mention that I got three phone numbers in the last four months which is a lot more than what I got in my past 12 AFC years.

I hope that you when reading this post will get some out of it and please read Styles book "The Game" It is a must if you want to start getting better with women.

Model Number Close on MySpace using Hatch's method by SDrenaissance

2007-12-14T01:07:00.000-08:00

Here is a past interaction with a model using Hatch's AIM method. I forgot about this line I used that I like and will start using again.

"I'm 74% glad I met you"----------------------------------------------------

From:[renaissance]Date: Aug 21, 2007 11:12

I think my friend knows you[renaissance]----------------------------------------------------

From: HBmodelDate: Aug 21, 2007 12:58 PM
Maybe... who is your friend??----------------------------------------------------

From: [renaissance]Date: Aug 21, 2007 12:59 PMTom. Just kidding—[friend’s name]. If it's actually you then he says you're cool but kinda dorky. He also said you're good at thumb wrestling but you better forget all about that. I was the world champion for 7 3/4 years. I still cuddle up with my trophy every night. haha----------------------------------------------------

From: HBmodelDate: Aug 21, 2007 1:07 PMahahahahaha lol WHAT?? [friend’s name] who??? He is right, I am pretty dorky But I don't sleep with a thumb wrestling trophy, just my blue ribbon from when I won at capture the flag at summer camp in '88----------------------------------------------------

From: [renaissance]Date: Aug 21, 2007 1:12 PMahhahahahah!!! I like a little dorky. And I'm totally a geek. Actually I wanted to be a nerd growing up but I wasn't smart enough. And wait... I KNEW you look familiar. It was YOU from summer camp. We were playing capture the flag and we were winning when you ran up to me and kissed me to distract me while your friend grabbed the flag out of my hand and went onto win! I can't believe THAT was my first kiss.----------------------------------------------------

From: HBmodelDate: Aug 21, 2007 1:17 PMThat was you!!! I've been wondering about that all these years and now I've finally found you on myspace How have you been? Did you ever get that thing looked at? lol Seriously though, I don't know a [friend’s name] I don't think... who is he? someone on my friends list, I don't know everyone on my friends list...----------------------------------------------------

From: [renaissance]Date: Aug 21, 2007 1:20 PMI'm totally doing great! It is sad that you were my first and last kiss thoughSeriously though you're actually fun to talk to and seem like a creative person. If you were to surprise me with a vacation where would you take us and what would we do?----------------------------------------------------

From: HBmodelDate: Aug 21, 2007 1:30 PMwhat?? Am I having an interview??? I wouldn't take you anywhere, because I don't know you... you could be a pyscho ax murderer for all I know... Although the chances of that are pretty slim so, if I was taking you on vacation, my next destination of choice would probably be some little bar in the islands where we could hang out, drink rum, have my boat, my dog, and my bf near by, (not particularly in that order) and maybe island hop whenever and wherever we feel like going next... You could bring your friends too, because our boat would have enough room for everyone And we would all drink knocker punch and swim and snorkle around.... Okay, that sounds like heaven... back to reality Now tell me who [friend’s name] is you little manipulator or I won't write you anymore And, I won't take you on vacation eitherlol----------------------------------------------------

From: [renaissance]Date: Aug 21, 2007 1:38 PMYes, this is an interview. I totally don't know what you're applying for though...And I already told you: [FRIEND’S NAME]!!! He was my best friend at summer camp in '88 (just kidding, I've only known him a few years).And you're totally right, I COULD be a psycho ax murderer. And you could be some myspace stalker chick who steals furniture and rips the tags off mattresses. But if you're not then we should totally be friends.And mmmmm, island hopping while drinking rum and snorkling does sound fun. After that I'm going to take us to Italy. I'll dress up like a priest and you'll dress up like a nun. We'll run around everywhere holding hands and goosing each other while we make out just so we can see the reaction on people's faces. And then we'll go eat some sushi because I love seafood and I've always wondered if the sushi is any good in Italy.----------------------------------------------------

From: HBmodelDate: Aug 21, 2007 1:42 PMyou are crazy, and awesome and I think I'm glad I've met you... Italian sushi sounds great and btw I've never ripped the tag off a mattress I just checked to make sure...----------------------------------------------------

From: [renaissance]Date: Aug 21, 2007 2:36 PMLOL. We can't continue to have this deliciously insightful conversation unless you are at least 97.9% glad you met me.But ok, back to the interview. You should probably know a thing or two about me. I am a dynamic figure, often seen scaling walls and crushing ice. I have been known to remodel train stations on my lunch breaks, making them more efficient in the area of heat retention. I translate ethnic slurs for Cuban refugees, I write award-winning operas, I manage time efficiently. Occasionally, I tread water for three days in a row.I saw that you have like CS Lewis (me too). Have you read Lord Foulgrin's Letters (it's another author's extension of the Screwtape Letters)?----------------------------------------------------

From: HBmodelDate: Aug 21, 2007 3:16 PMlololololol So you are well rounded... Is that what your telling me No, I hve not read that book, but it looks interesting, I googled it----------------------------------------------------

From: [renaissance]Date: Aug 21, 2007 3:22 PMWHAT?!?! I am NOT well-rounded. I'm actually a little too skinny but that's because I've been running a lot more lately.... But how rude!!!Anyway I'm 74% glad I met you too. I think I'll add you as a friend.----------------------------------------------------

From: HBmodelDate: Aug 21, 2007 3:38 PMlolI am 16% sure you are [friend’s name]'s friend...47% hungry...6% itchy&scratchy...18% body fat...11% annoyed I can't figure out who [friend’s name] is...and 2% good at balancing my checkbook----------------------------------------------------

From: [renaissance]Date: Aug 21, 2007 3:55 PMROTFL. [MySpace High Five] OK, even though I am 88% sure you're a big dork I am definitely, absitivipositively, without a doubt, 97% glad I met you I don't think I've laughed that hard in at least 45 min.Since you're so much fun I'm gonna give you an invite to one of our wine and cheese and checkbook balancing parties. But you gotta promise you're not some crazy myspace stalker chick who's gonna rip the tags off our mattresses and pillows.I am100% sure your numbers don't add up to 100%.44% hungry and can't WAIT to eat the Chinese porridge I just started cooking.78% sure I am [friend’s name]'s friend (I have an insecure side that balances my cocky side)13.478% body fat92% enjoying this conversationC% good at doing math but 85% good at balancing my checkbook6% sure my profile makes my butt look fat----------------------------------------------------

From: HBmodelDate: Aug 21, 2007 4:05 PMlolololol Your butt doesn't look fat.. It looks great really Everyone always looks 10-15 pounds heavier in pictures... The camera adds it... too bad it doesn't balance checkbooks too...----------------------------------------------------

From: [renaissance]Date: Aug 21, 2007 4:11 PMAwww, AND you're good at giving compliments. I love it! You're definitely getting an invite to our next party. Send me your number and I'll text you when we have one. But just so you know I'm super high maintenance and need to be complimented and taken good care ofOK. I gotta hop in the shower. Gonna go help out at a church tonight----------------------------------------------------

From: [renaissance]Date: Aug 21, 2007 4:15 PMxxx-xxxx Have funHave at it,[renaissance socialrockstar.blogspot.com]

More on body language.

2007-12-13T03:21:00.002-08:00

Here are 6 ways you can convey trust to a woman you’re attracted to:

1. Walk with your head straight and looking slightly above the horizon line. This shows that you are confident. It also shows that you are focused, and not distracted by anything that comes your way.

2. Widen your chest. How do you do this? Craig, from DYD fame, recommended this; place your thumbs in your back jean pockets. You’ll have to stretch out your chest to do so. Then remove your thumbs from your pockets. Relax, keeping an open chest, to a position that you are comfortable with.

3. Breath from your gut. This is the proper area to breath from for speaking. When you breath from your chest your shoulders with constantly raise and fall, which is unappealing.

4. Walk with your shoulder blades, NOT your arms. When you walk use your shoulder blades to move your arms. DO NOT swing your arms. Picture how a model with attitude walks.

5. Stand with your feet straight, and slightly wider than shoulder width apart. This again shows that you have direction. Having a wide stance conveys that you a firm stance on life.

6. DO NOT TALK WITH YOUR HANDS. Terence Young taught Sean Connery how to act like James Bond. One thing Terence Young could not stand is someone who talks with their hands.
In essence you want to convey that you know what you want and you are going to get it, regardless. You are not trying to impress/entertain anyone. That is what trust is; doing things for your only benefit. Selfishness is trust. Why? If you do things for your own benefit then you will give it your all. If you offer sex to a woman, as a trusting man, she knows that you are not desperate. You are only looking for sexual satisfaction, and if she doesn’t give it to you go elsewhere.

A quote from 300 sums this up the best. It comes from the manliest of men; Spartan King Leonidas.

Give them nothing! But take from them everything!-Spartan King Leonidas

Mindsets for proper posture.

2007-12-13T03:17:00.000-08:00

Imagine that you are the richest person in the world, you have everything you every wanted, you are THE MAN, and no body can touch you.

Cocky Comedy

2007-12-12T02:10:00.000-08:00

HB: Have a nice day!

PUA: Don't tell me what to do!...I barely know you and you are already telling me what to do.

Interesting Questions.

2007-12-12T01:55:00.000-08:00

Ask questions which connect instantly to her emotions.

_“What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done?”

_“What is the one thing you want to do before you die?”

IOIs from single women.

2007-12-11T05:28:00.001-08:00

There are specific IOI's that only available women will use.

-A flushed appearance or blushing when you look directly at her.

-Showing the inside of her palms and hands to you.

-Positioning her body towards you.

-Making attempts to get you to look at her or be noticed by you.

-Isolating herself from her friends so you’ll approach her.

34 Indicators Of Interest You Can Receive From Women

2007-12-11T05:21:00.000-08:00

For many men, it's quite easy to talk to women. But the trouble starts when it comes to time to figure out if they have "feelings" for you.

The truth is when a woman is interested in you she will ALWAYS send you some sort of signal. Whether it's called flirting or chemistry, a girl will do certain things to demonstrate her attraction to you. So you have to be on constant look out for these signs.
Now the best way to do this is to look for things which are commonly known as Indicators of Interest (IOIs). Basically an IOI is any action a woman does which shows a classic sign of attraction. When you see at least 3 or 4 IOIs you know that she definitely has some attraction to you. Then you know you can make a moveTo help you out, I've listed 34 of the most common IOIs you can receive from a woman. They are broken down into three categories (before the approach, during the initial conversation and after meeting her):

Before a conversation has been initiated does SHE:

• Move near you and seems to be hovering
• Consistently make eye contact with you then look away
• Smile at you• Toss her hair when she knows you're looking at her
• Brush against you when walking by
• Find some reason to talk to you (ie: asks for a light, wants you to take a picture of her friends, or ask for the time)

During your conversation does SHE:
• Ask your name
• Ask your age
• Give YOU a nickname
• Laugh at what your jokes and stories
• Ask if you have a girlfriend
• Wait for you if you go somewhere (ie: to the bar or bathroom)
• Stay with you when her friends move away• Touch you during the conversation
• Talk about your girlfriend without asking if you have one (In the hopes that you'll say that you DON'T have a girlfriend)
• Ask you to "teach her" your hobbies or interests when you bring them up
• Makes an effort to build rapport with you• Give you genuine compliments
• Moves close to you during your conversation• Show "open" body language like playing with her hair, facing you, and exposing her wrists/neck/inner thigh• Accuse of you of being a tease or a player
• Find a reason to approach you after the initial conversation
• Tease or otherwise challenge you
• Try to keep the conversation going after a momentary pause
• Hold lengthy eye contact with you during the conversation
• Look for your reaction when she does or says something

After meeting her for the first time does SHE:

• Always return your calls• Create a pretense or reason to always hang out with you
• Send you text messages, MySpace comments or Instant Messages
• Have her legs touch you when you're sitting next to her
• Have a boyfriend, but never find a reason to mention him
• Consistently makes physical contact with you during conversations
• Seem jealous when you talk about other girls
• Try to introduce you to her friends and family

As you can see there are a LOT of Indicators of Interest. If you want to attract a woman, you have to be able to identify when you're receiving these signals and know how to handle them.

Using Non Verbal Communication to Approach and Flirt with Women

2007-12-11T05:14:00.000-08:00

Without a doubt, openers are the BEST way to initiate a conversation. Simply by asking an innocuous question, you can quickly start an interesting conversation.
What’s interesting is sometimes you can use openers without saying a WORD.
The truth is there are times when you can use your body language to “approach” a woman. By establishing the “right” kind of eye contact, you can make a woman laugh then approach her in a confident manner.

Now as you probably know, women use eye contact to show their indicators of interest. When a girl shows certain signals, you know that there is something about YOU that has sparked her interest.

What’s problematic is you’ll often receive obvious eye contact from women, but have NO CLUE about how to proceed.
But the solution is simple. Whenever you receive an obvious sign that a girl is “checking you out” and is interested, you should use what I like to call a…
“Body Language Opener”

It’s an easy concept to master. Whenever you’re making eye contact with women, look for somebody who is fully focused on you. If you have her FULL attention, you use NON-VERBAL communication to show a playful side of you.

The idea is to give HER some indication that you’ve noticed her in funny manner. Then when she laughs, you simply approach her and start a conversation. Usually a body language opener will make her laugh, and demonstrate the fun part of your personality.

Now here are different techniques for using a body language opener:

• Stick your tongue out•
Give her a “pouty” face
• Do a really exaggerated “pick up artist” wink
• Give a demure and “embarrassed” look
• Show a big smile• Do a fake “angry” look, then crack into a smile• Give a quick head tilt [Like the “what’s up” expression]• Send a quick wave
• Do a mock “in love” expression. [Ie: Grab your chest and flutter your eyes]
• Do a fake a suspicious look. [Like you’re not sure why she’s looking at you]

Just remember that body language openers are derived from displaying a naturally funny side of your personality. If you can master the different “looks” that I described above, you can literally make a woman laugh before you’ve spoken a word.
By using this type of opener, you can start a conversation in a natural manner without resorting to the “canned material” that comes with other conversation starters.

Six Tips To Show Sexually Confident Body Language

2007-12-11T05:09:00.000-08:00

Being attractive to women sometimes doesn’t depend on what you say. Instead it can depend on the tone of your body language.
It’s been said that almost 90% of your communication is done through non-verbal cues. If you’re not displaying the right kind of body language, then the best openers and routines won’t be able to help you!
So the solution is simple. If you want to demonstrate high status, then you must know the secrets of giving off positive body language. When you do this, you’ll be perceived as a confident and dominant guy!
And in this post, I’ll reveal six ways you can show incredible body language around women. [For more on the importance of body language, take a look at the How to Become an Alpha Male system].

#1- Eradicate Weak Body Language
The first step to fixing your body language is to eliminate all body language traits that are considered weak. Women can instantly detect a man who isn’t confident. So in order to make INSTANT improvement, you MUST become sensitive to the body language traits you’re displaying.
For instance, some weak traits can include:
• Having your hands in your pockets• Fidgeting or showing nervous energy• Talking to people with your arms folded• Slumping your head or shoulder down• Looking uncomfortable in social situations• Not taking up space• Walking fast everywhere you go• Leaning towards women during an initial conversation
What’s interesting is you can make dramatic change to your body language simply by eliminating these behaviors.

#2- Work on your stance
The way you stand can have a huge impact on how people will think of you. Here are a few rules for how you should stand:
• Keep your chin and head up• Position your feet and legs at shoulder length apart• Have your hands at your side or have only ONE hand holding a drink in front of you (Bar environments)• Keep your back straight

#3- Take up space
The confident guys in the world are NOT afraid of others. This is especially true in social situations.
An easy way to eliminate your fear is subtly show your dominance and leadership by taking up space wherever your go.
The good news is can be easily done. Whenever you’re in a public environment, try to spread out a little. Instead of folding inwards when you’re surrounded by other people, position your body so you’re taking up the most amount of space.
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#4- Be relaxed
A confident guy is somebody who can ALWAYS show a relaxed pose in ANY situation. So if you want to demonstrate high status, you must display a casual aura around women.
By displaying a relaxed (yet confident) attitude, you’re showing that the little things in life don’t phase you. And here are a few ways to do this:
• Your eyes concentrate on the person in the conversation
• When talking to women at a bar, you lean back and show that you’re comfortable
• You never let your eyes dart around a room
• You spread out and look comfortable when sitting down
• You breath through your stomach instead of your chest
By showing a relaxed pose, you demonstrate a LACK of nervous and inferior body language traits

#5- You move deliberately
Low status guys are jumpy and ready to please women. As a result, they end up displaying “needy” body language. Instead of showing that you’re “ready to please” you want to demonstrate that you move on YOUR own terms.
One of the core traits of a beta male is being a guy who is ALWAYS ready to do favors for women. If somebody needs help, the beta male will instantly come running.
Instead of showing this inferior personality trait, you should move slowly and with a measured attitude. By taking deliberate actions with every step, you'll force people to pay attention to your schedule not theirs.

#6- Face away from women
You can tell a LOT to women without opening your mouth. If you walk up to a woman, invade her personal space and make your intentions obvious, then you’re demonstrating the fact that you’re trying to “pick her up”.
Now when you’re first talking to women, you DON’T want to make your intentions obvious. Instead of invading her space on the initial approach, you want to put her at ease. The best way to do this is to avoid directly facing a woman.
One of the principles of body language is we tend to be uncomfortable by people who face us directly. So instead of positioning yourself right in front of her (or a group), you should approach her to the side. If you can end up side-by-side or at an angle, you'll reduce her nervousness and tension. And this will help show that you’re not investing too much emotionally in the outcome of the conversation.
Your body language provides your first impression to women. If you know how to demonstrate high status with it, then you can easily show an attractive aura. By applying the six traits I discussed in this post, you’ll be able to show confident and alluring body language around women. Tags: be attractive body language build confidence demonstrate higher value personal appearance

Six Rules of Meeting Women with your Day Time Game

2007-12-11T05:03:00.000-08:00

When it comes to women, it’s important to have a variety of means for meeting them. This means NOT relying on bars & clubs for your opportunities to approach a girl.
A guy who is successful with women constantly looks for chances to meet women during ALL hours of the day.
Here’s what I mean. Instead of only talking to women at bars, you should pay attention to the hidden opportunities during the day where you can talk to a girl. What I’ve discovered is it’s actually easier to meet a girl when you’re out during the daytime.
So let’s talk about “Day Game” and how it can be your secret weapon for meeting women.
If you’re not familiar with this term, Day Game is using opportunities outside bar/club environment to meet girls. This can be when you’re running chores or out enjoying your hobbies. It’s a lot different because it avoids the obvious “singles scene” that is avoided by a lot of women. From my own experiences, Day Game is a great way to approach a woman in a low key manner without the stress of a crowded bar environment. What I’ve discovered is approaching women during the day can often have GREAT results.
But before you go out and approach every woman you see, let’s cover the basics of Day Game. If you want to succeed with this way to meet women, then I recommend you take a close look at these six basic rules for having tight day game:

Rule #1- Look your best
If you want to meet women during the day, you MUST look your best.
Now if you’re like me, then you probably enjoy “dressing down” during the day. But if you want to meet women, then you must be willing to groom yourself and dress for success.
So this means following basic guidelines for looking your best. (Ie: Shave, shower, apply cologne and wear nice clothes)

Rule #2- Talk to everyone
We’ve all been programmed to do chores during the day and not stop to talk with people. Unfortunately this attitude will get you nowhere with women.
If you want to improve your day game, then you must get into the habit of initiating conversations with those around you. (Even if they’re not women)
The more you practice talking to people, the more natural it’ll seem when you approach a girl.

Rule #3- Have an extraction plan
Unlike a club environment, you won’t have the luxury of “taking things back to your place” for a drink. In other words, don’t expect to meet a girl and immediately have sex with her.
However you can still meet a girl and move to another place to extend the conversation.
What I suggest is simple. When you’re out during the day, try to think of a place where you can have an instant “mini-date”. This could be a coffee house, shopping at a mall, or exercising.
The point is you want to have a place where you can immediately go and continue the conversation. By planning out this venue, you’ll make it seem like a normal part of your daytime activities.

Rule #4- Demonstrate high status
Even when you’re outside the “singles scene”, it’s still important to demonstrate a high status personality. If you want to be attractive to a woman, you must show the alpha male side of your personality.
So if you’re not comfortable in this area, then I recommend you learn why women are attracted to guys who can show this side of their personality.

Rule #5- Be an interesting guy
Again, this is another rule which applies in ANY environment. In order to be attractive to women, you must show that you’re a genuinely fun guy.
This means IMMEDIATELY showcasing a personality which she’ll like. For instance, you should:
• Tell fun stories about your life
• Use humor in a funny but teasing manner
• Make interesting comments about her
• Ask her provocative questions.

Rule #6- Establish Physical Contact
The final rule is absolutely important for making a “connection” to a woman. If you want to be attractive to woman, you must create sexual chemistry.
And one of the quickest ways to do this is to establish physical contact.
Within 5 minutes of initiating a conversation, you should create some sort of kino escalation with your target woman. This can include giving high-fives, handshakes, or using humorous body language routines.
Just remember that it’s often easier to meet women during the day. If you keep your eyes open and know how to take advantage of hidden opportunities, then you’ll discover that it’s easy to pick up women.
Simply implement the six rules of day game that I discussed in this post, and you’ll dramatically increase your overall chances of meeting different women

Life Lessons from movies.

2007-12-11T04:28:00.000-08:00

Go out to your local video store and watch the following movies.

1-James Bond- The 007 Movies

Okay, this one is pretty obvious. Every description of an alpha male typically uses James Bond as an example.
So what makes James Bond so great? Well, he is the PRIMARY illustration of how a man should act. He’s charming, confident and shows a strong sense of aura.
What I like best about Bond is he never seems to be fazed by what happens to him. He could be in sitting in a trap facing certain death and you won’t even see him breaking a sweat.
Manliness Lesson- Don’t let your emotions control your interactions. There will be times when things don’t go according to your plans. By remaining calm, you’ll exude a confident demeanor.

2- Tyler Durden- Fight Club

This is probably another obvious choice. It seems like the entire “seduction community” is obsessed with this particular film. Nevertheless, I think there’s a lot to learn about studying the viewpoint of the main character- Tyler Durden.
Besides his sociopathic desire to blow up half of Wilmington, Delaware, you can learn a lot about being an alpha male by paying attention to the simple philosophy of Tyler.
What I find interesting is how Tyler shows disdain towards the consumer attitude of needing thousands of toys and objects JUST to feel complete. There is one line that best explains this viewpoint:
“We're consumers. We are by-products of a lifestyle obsession. Murder, crime, poverty, these things don't concern me. What concerns me are celebrity magazines, television with 500 channels, some guy's name on my underwear. Rogaine, Viagra, Olestra…I say never be complete, I say stop being perfect, I say let's evolve, and let the chips fall where they may.”
I like this philosophy because our society tends to emphasize things that are NOT important. Life should be about spending time with the people that matter most and doing the things that make you happy. It shouldn’t be about buying into the latest craze or trendy new toy.
Manliness Lesson- Forget about the things that truly don’t matter in your life. Focus on what makes you a happier, BETTER person. If something bothers you, figure out if it really matters to your overall improvement.

3- Dex- The Tao of Steve

Here’s a movie that’s not well known, but has a great philosophy. In ‘The Tao of Steve’, the main character, Dex, has a philosophy about women that’s very simple:
1) Eliminate your desires2) Be excellent around her3) Retreat when you have her attention
What I like about Dex is he focuses on his internal game to become more attractive to women. He understands that women are naturally attracted to guys who are unique and provide excitement.
Manliness Lesson- Don’t worry about “hooking up” with women. Instead focus on learning about what women find attractive. Then go out and become a naturally attractive guy.

4- Satan- The Devil’s Advocate

Religious implications aside, Al Pacino portrays a kick-ass version of Satan. If you’re able to get through Keanu Reeve’s bad acting (“Dude, I totally don’t want to sell my soul…”) then you’ll see Pacino at his greatest.

What I like is how Pacino does a PERFECT job demonstrating a powerful sense of presence despite his small stature. Even though he doesn’t have a “male model looks”, he can still have sex with BEAUTIFUL women.
Also, in the scene with Charlize Theron, Pacino does a great job of showing how to sexually communicate with a woman. In particular, he’s having an innocent conversation about her hair. But with his body language, he’s sending her a whole different message.
Manliness Lesson- Learn how to sexually communicate with your body language. The key ingredient to attraction is being able to create sexual tension. Watch Pacino in this movie and you’ll have a great example of what confident body language looks like.

5- Trent- Swingers

Swingers is one of the CLASSIC examples of the “Pick Up Artist” mindset. In this movie, the fun-loving Trent tries hard to help out his AFC friend- Mikey.
Now, I disagree with a LOT of Trent’s philosophy. But the one great thing about his attitude is how he has fun in every situation. Whether he’s busy “picking up the beautiful babies” or “watching Gretsky’s head bleed”, Trent is the guy who has fun with life.
In fact, Trent helps Mikey become more laid back and more of a fun guy when he meets women. Through Trent’s influence, Mikey is able to pick up an attractive girl at the end of the movie
Manliness Lesson- Be a fun guy. One of the biggest mistakes you can make is to obsess over one particular woman or worry about every interaction. If you get out there and have fun, then you’ll naturally attract more women.

Conversation Ideas for first meeting.

2007-12-04T14:39:00.000-08:00

This is part of a DD newsletter.

1. Any Hollywood scandal involving anyone famous
and anyone of the opposite sex that's famous.

2. Any relationship drama going on between any pop
star and their new or ex boy/girl friend.

3. Anything that has to do with hip hop artists
spending too much money on rims that spin or
diamonds in their teeth.

Note: Remember you are not there to impress her or in a job interview and always remember don't be a wuss.

If SHE starts asking the "normal" questions
about school, job, family, etc. this is a perfect
opportunity to bust on her and say "What, is this
a job interview?"

Or "Can't you think of something interesting to
talk about? Please, spare me the pain of the usual
school-job-family conversation. Let's save that
until we're picking names for our kids."

If you MUST talk about something "normal" or
"regular", try sprinkling in a few of these ideas:

1) History. Women love to hear stories about the
history of places. If you're in an interesting
part of town, tell her the story of how the area
came to be named, or why the city was built where
it is. And if the story involves a tale of love
and/or scandal, all the better.

2) Anything superficial, classy, and basically
meaningless. Try learning a little about fashion,
this way you can make fun of it while acting like
you know what you're talking about. "Didn't
Madonna really screw up the fashion world with
this whole over-the-top fake cowboy look thing?"

3) Comedy Psychological Analysis. Have fun by
giving your wild perspective on others. "You know,
I've been trying to figure out why so many people
these days are going postal and shooting everyone.
I think it might be all the lame music that's on
the radio these days..." This one can be a lot of
fun... be creative.

Mindsets

2007-12-04T13:00:00.000-08:00

TO AVOID ONE IT IS :

NOT ENOUGH PROSPECTS = TOO MUCH CONCERN FOR ONE

TOO MUCH CONCERN FOR ONE = MIS-FOCUSING ENERGY

MIS-FOCUSING ENERGY = MISSING OTHER OPPORTUNITIES

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SAM INNER GAME

TO UNDERSTAND WOMEN:

Undestand that women aren't logical but emotional.

Create an emotional connection from the beggining.

THE HOUSE

2007-11-25T05:09:00.000-08:00

Well just in case you haven't realized it yet, in order to keep a girl's anttention she mest be entertained, otherwise she will turn around and go searching for someone more fun than you.
Here is one of my favorites mind games is short and to the point.

The House

Tell the chick to imagine herself standing inside a house. As she is
standing there, 5 things are taking place which demand her immediate
attention:

1. A baby is crying.
2. The phone is ringing.
3. Somebody is knocking on the door.
4. Water is running in a sink.
5. Clothes are hanging outside to dry and it's starting to rain.

Ask the chick to tell you in which order she would take care of each of
these problems. Once she tells you this, explain to her that her
answers represent her priorities in life, since each problem has a
specific meaning:

1. The baby represents her family.
2. The phone represents her love life.
3. The knocking on the door represents her friends.
4. The water represents money.
5. The clothes represents her career.

My first Myspace number close.

2007-11-23T04:16:00.000-08:00

This is my first number close from Myspace. I know I'm not supposed to practice with ugly chicks but I did it to practice on myself and my self confidence. Before I started the PU game I used to believe that I would never be capable of even getting an ugly chick. Now I figured that they won't leave me alone and here is one lesson to be learned from this, don't practice or waste your time on a girl that you are not interested on.

Are you confident opener.

2007-11-23T04:05:00.000-08:00

Man: "Hey, are you confident enough to accept a compliment?"

Woman: "Uh, sure..."

Man: "Ok great, me too. You go first."

Woman: (laughs, a little surprised)

Man: "Tell ya what, that's not fair since I ambushed you. I'll go first. You... (pauses a moment as he looks her up and down)... have a fantastic style. I love how your eyeshadow matches your earrings. Great attention to detail."

Woman: "Wow, uh... thanks."

Man: "Ok, but don't get a big ego or anything, we just met. Now it's your turn."

Woman: Thinking "WHOA. Who is this man? Well, he's having fun, not taking himself too seriously or being a JERK, but wow, he's confident and funny and he's challenging."

Original post by V

Challenge number one

2007-11-22T02:56:00.000-08:00

Approach every HB that you see and say, Hey. Are you the type of person I should get to know better? If the answer is Yes, then ask Why?

Mindset:

What does she have to offer to me? I'm the perfect experience for her! I will make her feel goosebumps and I can make this girl cum in many different ways. Feel good and natural.

Possible opener if I after a while I decide to PU:

The crappy sketch-artist approach.

It works well with or without initial eye contact. Carry a pen and a small spiral notepad and pretend to sketch your target and make a big deal out of it, furrow brows and act as if in deep concentration. Draw a stick figure of her on the notepad and label it accordingly, for instance "Beautiful Woman At Dinner with Friends" Deliver stick figure drawing and say "Hey, you beauty inspired me to high art" then take a bow like you are proud of your work.

After HB laughs explain that:

It is an ABSTRACT rendition that emphasizes the underlying ephemeral aspects of the counterpointing metaphorical structure as super-imposed on the physical apsects of the rendition of the work.

Target is open and is time to move on into a routine.

Purpose of this challenge:

To teach myself to naturally approach girls.

Currently Reading Gunwitch method Fast Seduction

2007-11-21T08:50:00.001-08:00

This will be updated as soon as I finish the book.

Reminder List

2007-11-21T08:33:00.000-08:00

Here is my reminder list in which I describe the things I will change to improve my self.

Style:
Get a Diesel Watch.

Personality:

While holding a conversation with a woman_

Relaxation of mind pace and body through familiarity with female interactions and realizing others care more what I think of them than they even think of me

Make eye contact, don’t mumble, don’t tell inside jokes only you get, have a relaxed posture with chest out

No one is thinking about you. They are too busy thinking about what YOU think of THEM to think anything about YOU, SO they can only “feel you”

Have the thought in your head, during the interaction, that “others care more what I think of them than they can even think of me”.

What not to say or talk about in a conversation:

Fucked: gore, guts, rape, scabs…
Sex: this will drive her conditioning against it through the rood if done improperly.
Joker: Don’t try to hard to be funny
Total Guy: Sports, boxing, computer programming…
Boyfriend, some guy she wants: Change the subject and FAST. Acknowledge it with a nod or “oh yeah” and change the subject.
Negatives: Shit like hr job she hates, her problems. If negatives come up say “Ahh lets forget about all that ugly stuff and go get some ice cream!” with a tongue in cheek goffy smile.
Politics, abortion, human rights violations, hatred of immigrants, your racism against this or that people.

A - assumption of rapport

When you approach, have this thought in your mind; “We are not strangers, we have a rapport, and you can trust me cause we are already together or know each other”.
You do not want to assume rapport to quickly as this may confuse her, so a few light questions.
Once you get an IOI THEN assume rapport

10 things you should be doing to get started.

2007-11-20T03:37:00.001-08:00

Alpha behaviours - for breakbeat (important) By TD from Real Social Dinamics.

When I first came onto the board, breakbeat IM'ed me to ask if I had any insights onto what an alphamale really was, and what characteristics/attributes/qualities they had.
I kept my eyes open for a long time, and compiled a mental list. I've been meaning to post this for a while.
I think that this is really important, and I hope that people will read all of this.
This post is about to get messy I think... confusing, etc.
Alright, for me, as I've gotten good at PU, I've finally started to notice discrepancies between myself and NATURAL players.
It's funny, because even though I can outgame any natural in terms of results, I often feel like I'm trying too hard.
Like, even though I can outgame them, they can have a nice chill night and just be comfortable and secure, while my mind is racing a million miles a minute.
Of course this is because I LOVE the game, and because I play it for the purpose of stimulating myself intellectually (once you get very experienced, your mind buzzes with info-processing while you're doing PU, as you rapidly compare past experience and game-theory that you've read, to events at hand.. This is why I play the PU game so much, and it is a similar reason to why I enjoy my philosophy cirriculum at school).
Still though, I've studied alpha behaviour very carefully now, and I've noticed some characteristics, which you guys may or may not agree with.
Here they are off the top of my head:

ALPHAMALE CHARACTERISTICS:

1) NEVER QUALIFYING THEMSELVES.

"Qualify" meaning that they never brag or even REMOTELY explain things... they don't say "I'm tired right now", or "I'm really hung over", or "My good clothes are at home", or "I used to be able to lift that weight, but I haven't been in the gym for a while.", or "I could do that, but I'm having a bad day."
Similarly, they don't talk excessively about all the chicks they've laid, or all their girlfriends, or all their success.
WHY? Because they don't even GIVE A FUCK enough about you to even tell you about it.
They ASSUME that you'll think that they're the shit, because they ARE.
TALKING ALOT / TOO MUCH IS VERY OFTEN INTERPRETED AS QUALIFYING YOURSELF.

2) NOT LOOKING AROUND.

Think CLINT EASTWOOD. He hears a big bang or loud noise, and he SLOWLY turns to look at it. He doesn't let ANYBODY disturb him. He's in his own reality.
I can remember walking into a class late one day, and not looking at the teacher WHATSOEVER.
The girls started giggling, as I looked totally unconcerned at what anyone thought, and they started hitting on me after class. I mean I can hardly convey this over the net.. The reaction was RIDICULOUS.

3) TALK SLOW.

Think to when you are chatting some authority figure, or somebody who you admire. If you're like me, you'll increase your speech DRAMATICALLY.
It's very obvious, and I've seen guys who are alpha start talking abnormally fast when confronted with guys who are MORE alpha.
Talking fast is a way of QUALIFYING yourself to someone, because you are WORRIED that they'll stop listening to you and that you won't get out what you have to say.

4) BEING THE ANCHOUR OF THE CONVERSATION.

Notice that when an obviously alpha guy is present, everyone faces their bodylanguage towards him.
If you crack a joke, people wait for the alphamale to laugh as a sort of "approval" of the joke. He laughs, and then everyone follows.
Also, an alphamale can crack a DUMB joke, but notice that everyone laughs. It's a laugh of SUBMISSION in many ways, as when I'm sarging girls they always giggle non-stop.. (alot of PUAs I've met will say "dude, you make girls giggle like nobody else.. this is ridiculous".. This is only something that I learned as I practised *** stuff, and it never used to happen.
Notice that chicks LAUGH HYSTERICALLY when you call them "geeks/dorks/powerpuffgirls".. Or they laugh when you say that if they're not rich you'll break up with them.
Guys, this stuff is NOT FUNNY. But they laugh like its the funniest thing they've ever heard. Why? IMO, its because its a laugh of submission. These C&F remarks set you as ALPHA, and they giggle to submit.
This is called going "girly-girl", and the ugly chicks always bash the hotties for giggling at the captain of the football team's lame jokes.. "see how she laughs at all his dumb jokes.. its so pathetic!" (even though they WISH that THEY were the ones who the cool-guy would be chatting up)..

4b) USURPING THE GLORY.

Alphas seem to take ANYTHING that challenges their alpha status in the room and USURP it for themselves.
This is a variation of being the ANCHOUR of the convo.
Basically, if you're not the alpha, and you say something cool, the alphamale might do something like "YEAH THAT IS THE SHIT... YOU COULD EVEN DO X,Y,Z...."
Somehow, YOUR cool idea has become THEIR cool idea, and they've usurped the credit for your idea.

5) NEVER BEING IMPRESSED.

There's this one dude, who whenever I hang out at his house (university frathouse type deal, with lots of guys living there), there will always be this little "alpha-subtext" deal going on.
Like, I'll be showing the dudes there something, and I'll have ALL the attention.
But will HE come over and act impressed? NOPE.
He'll just go do his own thing, or just sit there eating his ravioli, unimpressed with me, in his own reality.
The ONLY time he'll pay attention to what I'm doing is if its a case like 4b, where he'll usurp it for himself.
Otherwise, he's NEVER interested.

6) ONLY HAVING RAPPORT WITH BETAS, EXCEPT FOR A FEW EXCEPTIONS.

I've noticed that I can't get along with alphamales as well as I used to be able to.
It's like a conflict in the room, where the heirarchical status is totally out of order.
Alphas will often hate eachother, except that when they DO make friends, they are BEST FRIENDS.
Or, they can co-exist, but have this sort of weird way of talking.
Like they'll say things to eachother in ways that don't qualify themselves, so its sort of like a weird broken conversation. I dunno how to describe this, but I'm sure you've all seen it.
Anyway, they get along with everyone, since everyone is on their knob. But as soon as someone who tries to "take over" the alpha status comes along, he's ridiculed for whatever reason they see fit.

7) ANSWERING QUESTIONS WITH DEGRADING JIBBERISH.

I've noticed that alphas will also have tendencies to take any question that you may have posed in attempt to get rapport with them, and answer it with some stupid non-sensical bullshit.
This goes back to why I say "don't ask girls questions.. just make statements until they try to get rapport with YOU.. 'what's your name', etc etc"
Say that you come across an alphamale, and you want to try to get rapport with him. Maybe you'll ask him some basic questions or something.
But he'll answer with stupid shit like "guess", or "I work at taco bell.. I'm the employee of the month".. SOUND FAMILIAR?
Also, they have a tendency to take what you asked and TWIST it around to ridicule you.

8) ALPHAMALES DON'T GIVE A FUCK ABOUT YOU.

Have you ever been onto a campus where there are cliques everywhere.
Go look at the clique of rich jewish kids. (many of my closest friends are in these, so no stupid racist bullshit comments)
They don't give a fuck about you. You can be the centre of attention, life of the party, whatever..
It doesn't matter, they're in their corner with a few hotties, minding their own business, and they're NOT gonna come out to see what cool shit is going on with you.
Now you'd THINK that this would make them BETA, but there's just something ABOUT them that makes it seem cool.
Their disinterest puts them up above you, and if they DO come over, they come over like you're their "CLOWN" whose purpose is to ENTERTAIN THEM. It's all about THEM, not YOU. Again, "USURPING THE GLORY".

9) ALPHAMALES GET MORE CREDIT FOR MINOR ACTS OF KINDNESS THAN BETAS DO.

When I was in NYC with Papa and Mys, we stayed at the house of this guy named "Garvellous" (NYC **** top guy).
He was a really cool guy, and he'd been laid around 40 times in college before he'd even FOUND ***.
He'd been in a frat, and he told me about something that the frathouse would intentionally do to new pledges when they'd apply.
According to Garvellous, they were told to appear UNAPPROACHABLE and CLIQUISH initially.
THEN, they were to be REALLY DOWN TO EARTH.
What he explained was that if you APPEAR to be cliquish and unapproachable, that when you turned out to be actually down to earth, people would say "this guy is the NICEST/COOLEST guy.."
As opposed to a librarian or a geek being nice, which NOBODY appreciates because they interpret it as COMPENSATING for short-comings.
Just think: Imagine if you were to bump into Jay-Z or Dr. Dre or Michael Jordan, and they had a big entourage. The celeb in question comes up to you and says "what's up.. having a good time dude? cool.. yeah this place is pretty busy you know, and it can be kinda intimidating.. but you know, I just try to have a good time.. anyway, have a good night man.."

You'd be like HOLY SHIT THAT GUY IS THE COOLEST/NICEST GUY I'VE EVER MET... You'd tell EVERYBODY about how cool and down to earth the celeb is, and you'd be really appreciative and impressed.
Now take the SAME REMARK from a geek or whatever, and you wouldn't give it a second thought... Whatever, its just some geek.
In clubs, the "unapproachable" guys are the dudes who wear sunglasses into the club, and have superfly clothes and a corner with hot girls. Notice that if one of THOSE guys approaches your set in a club, you will NEVER snub him. The two-man cockfarm of generically dressed guys on the other hand, its a different story.

10) ULTIMATE COMFORT IN OWN SKIN.

Here is one that I find really funny.
Look at rapport 50-Cent, or any stereotypical rockstar.
Now your average woman will have all of these "ideals" that guys should have, but notice that these go out the window for guys like 50-Cent.
50-Cent raps about how he's going to kill and shoot people.. Fuck hoes, etc etc..
NOBODY questions this.
He is 50-Cent, he's from the streets, and THAT-IS-WHO-HE-IS.
NOBODY QUESTIONS IT.
Similarly, a rockstar pumps massive drugs and fucks groupies all day long.
He's a REBEL.. a BADBOY.. a SEX SYMBOL.. (notice the correlation, and how projecting rebel/badboy can get you laid, even though there is no LOGICAL reason for that being the case)..
Even a spiritual guy who talks about inner-peace and non-violence and all that stuff will usually say "well, he's a superstar" when they're asked what they think about these types of guys.. (there are exceptions of course, and the dudes with more zeal will call out anybody).
Another example is like COLLEGE ALPHA MALES who wear dumb shit like TOGAS and marker up their faces with magic marker and shit like that.
Notice that everyone thinks that its COOL, just because the "cool kids" (alphas) are doing it. NOBODY questions it.

CONCLUDING THOUGHTS:
1) Good topic for discussion - how to DEAL with these kinds of guys. For any of us who do clubs, these kind of guys can be DIFFICULT TO BEFRIEND, for group thoery purposes (for social proof, and of course for stealing their chicks)

So how do we get good at out-alpha-ing these guys, who barely talk, and who are disinterested in getting to know you?
2) In what ways do WE on *** EMULATE these behaviours?
Some obvious ones are just making statements and not asking about them until they go for it first.
And following up "what's your name" with answers like "guess".

3) How does this CONFLICT with the fact that you NEED TO BE TALKATIVE in order to pickup.
It's funny, because it could be argued that the true alpha doesn't TRY to pickup, but just goes out with his group and has girls do the work to approach HIM.
It just strikes me funny that although I'm supposedly thought of as this big alpha guy on campus, that I TRY REALLY HARD compared to all the other alphas. Basically, I'm a MASSIVE try-hard when you really get down to it. I just hide it very well.
So if alphamales don't talk too much, because that is QUALIFYING YOURSELF, then how do we run a good PU?
One way to get over this hump is to just go and make statements, run routines, etc etc, in a way that conveys that you're just in the mood to TALK, and it has NOTHING to do with impressing them.
Of course this is what David D, ********, and others are referring to when they say its 90% bodylanguage/tonality.
This goes back to the ideas of 2) TALK SLOW, 3) NOT LOOKING AROUND. Also 1) NOT QUALIFYING YOURSELF is important here as well, since you JUST TALK and don't try to get rapport, or say things that could be interpreted as qualifying yourself.
A GREAT way to do this is JERK ROUTINES, which are NEGS because you are saying that you don't want them, so they interpret that as NOT qualifying yourself, which makes them perceive you as alpha, which attracts them to you.
Also importantly here,
8) ALPHAMALES DON'T GIVE A FUCK ABOUT YOU...
That is conveyed by the fact that you DON'T ASK QUESTIONS to the chick. You don't ask her her name, or where she works, or ANYTHING until she starts asking YOU.
IOW, I don't go for rapport with HER, until she goes for it with ME, and then I initialy TEASE her that I won't reciprocate this intention ("guess", C&F answers, etc), for the first minute, until I DO give it to her.
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OK, long post. I hope people will find this helpful.
I'm really cool!

A FINAL THOUGHT:
4) ******** METHOD.
How does this alpha behaviour stuff fit into ******** METHOD??
Is it possible that ******** tells us not to use routines or ANYTHING other than NEUTRAL TALK, because it could be interpreted by the chick as you QUALIFYING YOURSELF?
Maybe that's why he finds it so hard to believe that any routines could be helpful in PU. Because he hasn't seen routines executed in such a way that you are still alpha.. He's only seen it delivered in a supplicative way.
I could TOTALLY see that, given that routines ARE often delivered in such a way, by myself included on some days.
Neutral talk could be projected as ALPHA, because it is SELF-SECURE and not TRY-HARD.
I'm thinking that the fundamental type stuff that I've written here may auger very well with ***, in terms of bodylanguage, and "less is more".

Naturals and the Pick-up game

2007-11-20T03:29:00.001-08:00

Here is a little aHa! moment I had last week. At the place where I currently work I met this Alpha male. This guy is a natural and by observing his behavior around girls and his opinions about game, I came to the realization that PUA material; for example that of Mystery, Style, or DD as well as many others, all mimic the mindset of this guy. Of course he is got good looks on his side, he is tall, very muscular, and has good personality, but his mindset is amanzingly similar to the concepts of PUA methods. I would like to challenge any non-believer AFCs to observe guys who are successelful with women and to compare their ideas about game to any method of their choice. This will certainly convince non-believers that this methods are right on the money and are worthy of being studied.

Post by Kino Kokoro.